What should I do when my boyfriend has a boner?

Alright, so my boyfriend and I don't see each other that often but when we do, he's usually excited and has a pretty obvious boner.
For example, two days ago we spent the whole day together at my place. At some point we were laying down on my bed, on our backs beside each other and listening to music. We were only holding hands but I could tell he had a boner. And after that, he turned over and got closer to me and I could feel it poking my leg. I was really tempted to look down at it and/or rub it to potentially give him a blowjob...
I'm asking because I want to know if my boyfriend would like me to acknowledge it and act on it or if I should just ignore it?
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  • I'd suggest that something quite contrary to what one person here said. Just because a guy gets a boner, does not mean he want sex. A guy can get a boner for a variety of reasons. Yes, a boner feels good, and it means a guy is physically ready for sex. It does not mean he is wanting sex, though he often does want sex when he has a boner. A boner is a reaction to stimuli, usually sexual in nature, and the guy has no control of whether or not he gets a boner. He can simply kiss you, and give you a hug, with not intention of sex, and get a boner. It's natural.

  • I can tell you now that if you haven't done anything to this point, and you now decided to play with it or give him a blow job he would welcome it with open arms. He's clearly excited and to nervous to ask you or to try and make a move. So do it for him I gurantee he'll be happy you did.

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  • definitely don't ignore it, you should rub it and then give him a BJ. He obviously thinks you're hot and maybe he's just too shy to make the first move.

  • He would love you to give him a handjob or, even better, a blowjob

    • I need a bj

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  • i believe you know what to do with that... he has a problem... solve it.

    • How would you suggest I do that?

    • whatever you can do or that comes to your head. I mean... you did say you had a blowjob in mind... so instead of thinking it... do it.

  • I'm sure he'd like you to act on it.

  • Ask, "Wouldn't you like some help with that?"

    • If he says yes, what should I do?

    • Depending on the level of intimacy the two of you have reached, anything that has a happy ending for him. Let him know your wishes as well.

  • He definitely is hinting

  • Yea, he definitely wants you to play with it. Even if he doesn't have a boner he wants you to play with it.

  • The odds that he would not be pleased if you acknowledge it in a way that makes it clear you like it, and then rub it or try to look at it, or do more... is very, very very low.

  • You should acknowledge it and act on it.

  • ASk him. Chances are he would love the attention and you both might well enjoy it. - Talk to him, see if you are both ready.

    • What should I ask him?

    • If he wants for you to do anything? if he is ok with it? If he is ready to get sexual with you? While you are at it, ask yourself if you are ready for that step.

    • Great, thank you

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  • Smile, stroke, suck, swallow, smile.

  • Suck it that will make him happy !!!

  • If you were tempted, the by all means, satisfy your temptation :))
    If not, I dunno. Maybe write a poem about it? About your regret of never fufilling this act of true love...
    Or maybe write a treaty and agree on the terms.

  • Are you kidding... of course suck the mans dick already !

  • Suck on it until it pops inside your mouth

  • YES! GIVE HIM A BLOWJOB! FUCK HIM! Take some initiative and he will adore it.

    In fact if he's seriously pent up, you could probably eat his load and he'd get hard again if you sucked him just a little more, then he can give you a nice, long fuck.

  • I'm sure he wants you to act on it...

  • He would defiantly like it lol.

  • Suck it

  • Well, music, bed, cuddling and then poking. If he had speakers installed you would hear a siren blowing your ears off. He wants some and if you do too, then give that man sum luuuuv.

    A guy would usually rarely have a boner unless he wants some. Say you are in a public pool, gets close and you feel his boner. Unless you both wanna go all out crazy in public I would advise to avoid too close contact to prevent awkward situations.

  • Do something.

  • I think any guy would want his girl to play with it.