What should I have done here?

[Mamasanma]

A while ago I had a discussion with a Latino guy on here about age gaps during sex. We talked about how he cheated with a older woman when he was a minor and said he thinks its different if it's a woman because its a double standard.

I told him I don't care if it's a man or woman and that I have no double standard and it would depend on the person what they think.

He threw a tantrum at me and started calling me names. I ghosted him since.

[SlothySlob]

I can't defend either you or him for what has happened since I have only your testimony. As to what you could have done... I don't really know. He seems to be very passionate about this topic, him being latino is completely irrelevant.

I cannot agree that you do not have double standards, since I don't know you and you cannot decide that for yourself.

I cannot defend him for his actions, if true, his choice of conduct was retarded.

For what you can do now, I agree with your choice. Ignoring is best and if you feel like he's being too annoying, this would be the perfect example as to per why you can block people.

[Mamasanma]

I don't have a double standard in this topic, what are you talking about?

[SlothySlob]

Don't. Just don't. You reach out to me, ask me for an opinion, I gave you my opinion on something that I don't even know if it even happened. I don't know what was said and I only have your very, very abbreviated turn of events. What you do or do not have is something I cannot know. I merely said I cannot agree that you do not have double standards, because I do not know you, I don't know how you act, I don't know what you do. I cannot be confident in something I don't know. If you can't understand that, I'm sorry.

[Mamasanma]

Then why are you on this site? We are all strangers, you don't know anyone in here, your logic makes no sense

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

Many people look at it as nothing but got to watch that the boy gets the woman in trouble with the law because this one school teacher is in 20's-30's, had sex for quite a while with this young male student after the time of doing things word got out that the two were engaging in sex well the teacher is now in jail.

[Mamasanma]

That's great

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

@mamasanma You're welcome :)

[Mamasanma]

What's your opinion?

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

@mamasanma I think it's touch and ago situation some teachers are older males who have sex with their younger females and right away they get in trouble... Then the same thing happens to males, they are younger and get in trouble with older female teachers.

[Mamasanma]

I mean about my situation here

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

@mamasanma If you are a teacher and have a young male student, just be careful.

[Mamasanma]

I am talking about the situation in my question

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

@mamasanma Does these things happen during school or after school?

[Mamasanma]

I think you misunderstood the question unfortunately

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

Thanks for MHO :)

[Mamasanma]

I didn't give the mho lol

[LiamSawyer]

Just forget the jerk.

[FunkyMonkee]

Kinda sounds like he has issues and you did the right thing.

[Mamasanma]

Like why get angry? What have I done

[FunkyMonkee]

Exactly!

[DarkLegacy]

Of course it does not matter

[Mansearching]

All you did was tell the truth. Some people can't handle that. Don't worry about it. If he still bothers you, block him.

[stratford]

How old was he and she?

[Mamasanma]

17 and 30s

[stratford]

That's a fairly big difference and she should have known better.

[Mamasanma]

Yes, but we argued about gender which was the main point of my question

[stratford]

Gender makes no difference, and adult took advantage of a minor, even if the mnor enjoyed it, which I bet he did.

[Mamasanma]

Yeah I agree but some men get triggered when you say it's taking advantage for some reason. It's so fucking stupid

[PointTaken]

He cheated for one and that's wrong. What kind of age gap? What does the age gap have to do with it?

[Mamasanma]

He hated if the older was a man that was his problem

[PointTaken]

Oh. That's really stupid and hypocritical. He's totally wrong with having one way of thinking then.

[Mamasanma]

I thought so too

[HippieVeganJewslim]

You should’ve told him that cheating is fucking wrong, full stop. Not all women think the same.

[Mamasanma]

It wasn't about cheating but the age gap and gender which ticket him off

[HippieVeganJewslim]

If both people consent and hit puberty, sex should be allowed in that case.

[strlb]

Ghosting was the right decision. Cheating is Cheating, gender and age are irrelevant

[Mamasanma]

Cheating wasn't why he got mad though. But the age and gender

[Jerre]

Just what you did, then walk away from him.

[Alex8736]

did you block him as well?

[Mamasanma]

No...

[InsecureLivesMatter]

Spank his ass like