What should I say to a friends with benefits (guy) that keeps asking me for a threesome with a girl friend of mine?

I’m trying to see my friends with benefits (guy) tonight, but he keeps bring up a threesome with a girl friend of mine, which I won’t do, I don't know if I should dodge the question or tell him I won’t bring a girl friend along with me
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  • See he is not your boyfriend is ur just fuck buddies so it's no big deal.. he can ask..
    So if you are into it it is up to you to decide if you want it or not..

    Or maybe if u want MFM threesome with him and one more guy you can make a deal with him that is if you are comfortable..

    That you will arrange FMF threesome for him with ur friends if he arranges MFM threesum for u

    But you don't want anything and you don't want to have a threesum with your friend and him together you can just straight away so say no so it all depends on you and what u want 😁

Most Helpful Guy

  • Here's what you do. Get the friend, Make it a dude.
    Or alternately fill up a couple of glasses with water and leave them under the bathroom sink. Invite over a girl that is a friend and in on the plan. You come up behind him and kiss his neck while she slowly pulls his pants down. Once his penis is exposed she should get a horrified look and say "What the hell? Oh God! Oh my GOD NO!" and then she should run into the bathroom, lock the door and make vomiting noises while pouring the water into the toilet. Then flush and come out crying before running to the front door.

Most Helpful Girls

  • Just say that if he keeps asking he will end up as a friend with no benefits.

  • "Asked and answered"... The "with benefits" can end at any time.

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • Why wouldn't you answer him directly and bring an end to his request?

  • I wouldn’t dodge the question. No reason to be afraid or ashamed of your answer either, just say no if you’re not into it

  • Make it clear you don't feel your going to benefit with that arraignment and your afraid it will cause friction with your friend outside of the bedroom.

    Then suggest he finds a guy friend of his for a MMF 3 some and if he says no just keep pestering like he does you'll probably get it across how annoying it is.

  • Just tell him no, if he doesn't like it he'll just have to put up with it or go elsewhere.

  • You told him you're bi or curious, otherwise why would he constantly bring this up.

    If you are bi or bi curious, and you do want a 3some, just not with your friend, explain to him you will never forsake your friendship over sex.

    If you are bi or curious, ask him to find a girl on his own who is willing to have a throuple type of relationship, which is almost impossible, but if he does find such a girl, he will most likely cheat on you and leave you alone.

    If you are not bi or curious, tell him to arrange 2 guys and 2 girls on his own since 3 is a rookie number.

  • Why did you enter this "friends with benefits"? It was to have an intimate relationship without the dating baggage. "friends with benefits" are exclusive. There is no place for group sex here. Tell him no and arrange to end the relationship.

  • just tell him you are not into that, and it is something that you will never ever do and to please stop asking for it.

  • He is your fuck buddy. Not your boyfriend. He can ask what he likes because he has no respect for you.

  • Tell him you're not interested.

  • Tell him upfront to leave those hopes

  • I say dodge him for good.

  • What do you mean what should you say? Just tell him it will never happen and leave it there

  • Tell him straight out.

  • 1. Just tell him.
    2. Why not?

  • Just tell him that is not going to happen.

  • Tell him to stop asking its not going to happen

  • I think you should

  • yes...

  • Simply say no. Why is it so hard? lol And if you have but he keeps bringing it up, then tell him one last time, "I've told you no and I mean it. Don't bring it up again or you're gone!"

  • Tell him you want a threesome with one of his guy friends