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9 mo

What should my first big toy be?

So I've finally moved after years of living next bedroom across to my parents and I've been telling myself I'm gunna get a toy that's gunna make me go wow.

So I'm stuck between the wand and the air suction one and/or a thrusting dildo. I was wondering if anyone had any suggestions?
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9 mo
So when I say big I mean expenditure wise, I've had a rabbit wore that out and broke it. I've had several vibes and eggs and while they do help it didn't hit the spot I've got a life-like dildo which is fun to use but my arms tend to get tired or I can't really get a good grip for a good bounce. I've often heard about wands and such and thought about that a fair bit but also just wanted some inspiration too.
9 mo
Well that was an utter failure, I got myself a thrusting rabbit as I like a bit of both worlds the D gets me super worked up and the rabbit to finish me off but now I've tried it several times and I think my clit has died and not in a good way lol the problem I have with the dildo is my arms/legs gets tried before I can cum lol so apparently I need to be fitter before I can orgasm
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  • Yeah so what you should get definitely depends on what you receive the most pleasure from. Like one could suggest a thrusting dildo as they are amazing for penetration. Or one could suggest one of those ride on rabbits or whatever that you sit on in a cowgirl position and just let it rocks your clit to oblivion… I also found this lady on Instagram who was really in to gem stones and crystals she sells stone dildos. Some of her stuff blows my mind. Hahah! And I can’t even use most of it.

    • You know what you need… you need one of those Bluetooth eggs… I forget what they call them. But you can totally give your boyfriend the control while he is at work or some random guy from somewhere. Just message them and be like I’m ready and they can mess with you in crazy ways. And be nowhere near you. They are a bit expensive and that is why I suggest it… but they are AMAZING!!

    • Don't worry in a few years I'll have all of them lol 🤣 but for now it's decision time, I think either the thrusting rabbit that looks good, though sitting down on the vibrating clit rocker sounds great

    • And the egg thing, is that a thing getting a random guy to control the egg? That sounds like a next buy thing

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  • I have made a few toys for women I have one ical it thumper it has leg straps and a waist strap you get in to it turn it on and with a remote control you can make it make love or violently thump you what's even better is if you have a partner that holds the remote control it will drive you crazy

Most Helpful Girl

  • If you want "big" you might like a "Bam." And get a vibe bullet for your clit.

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • How about a Lexus, LOL!

  • The wand is the most recommended at least it's the name i hear the most and I don't even do or own sex toys.
    But ideally, get yourself a boy toy, natrual strokes are just unique

  • Magic wand. My girlfriend says nothing has ever gave her the orgasm that it does when we play with toys together.

  • I’m available—and I’m surprisingly cheap. ;)

  • A rabbit vibrator I also hear that a clit sucker is a must

    • When you masturbate, what is your main focus, on your clit or on your vagina

    • I'm a bit odd I start off using the vibe then slide a dildo in then mix it up for awhile then finish with the vibe which I often try to keep the dildo in while orgasming or simply being on the edge

    • You should seriously look into one of those clit suckers, keep your dildo or vibrator. I think you'll cum pretty easily

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  • The women I've dated, including my SO, seem to enjoy a vibrating rabbit.

  • 7" is a perfect start

  • Wands make women go wow

  • You could just get a man

    • It's not really that easy even if I'd love to have a man so we can take care of each others needs

    • I'm single and willing to travel

  • This really depends on what you like. If you want clit stimulation get a hitachi magic want. If you want penetration and vibration get a true rabbit vibe (not a knock off) and if you like gspot or different sensations like hot/cold then try a glass toy. Use warm or cold water to change the temp before using it.

  • Hitachi Magic Wand. Thank me later.

    • Corded

    • My old girlfriend wore herself with this monster.

  • Go thrusting and let it roll your eyes back in your head

  • It all Depends on what stimulation you enjoy the most.

    Are you a clitoral or deep penetration type of female?

    • A mix tbh the best feeling I've ever got is from being fingered I love it a lot more than sex or being eaten out, though having sex when Im not fully recovered is super too. But how I can achieve a similar level by myself I'm not sure

    • And so this is the whole point of the matter. You are going to have to examine and test what works best for you. whether The wand via clitoral or the dildo via deep penetration. So take your time and set aside the time where you can explore your body and learn what you enjoy by yourself so that you can share it with your partner. A good friend of mine once told me that Good sex starts with loving yourself.

    • Let me know how it goes Oh I forget to mention since you like fingering. Have you tried fingering yourself?

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  • Try a Bad Dragon

    • What's that?

    • It's a brand of extreme sex toys. Google it.

  • girls seem to love the wands and clit suckers in my experience

  • 1st off be specific how big do you want to go

    • You can answer in private of you want to

  • Thruster

  • all of them are good. if u want the wand is really good and faster then a thrusting dildo. but the thrusting dildo will hit the g spot and gos in deeper. and the suction dildo is also great. but I would say the thrusting dildo. then when u have the money get the wand.

  • Sybian.

    • VERY $$$!!!

    • She said she was looking for an expensive toy.

  • I've made a few toys from a mold of my dick. Would love to be the model for your new favorite toy. Just my first thought. Lol

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