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What should someone who will have anal intercourse for the first time pay attention to?

I'm gay, I want it so much but I'm a little scared, will I enjoy it or will it just be painful?

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  • I have a lot of experience giving but none receiving (I'm straight) but I'll share what I know in case it might help. I've been with women who had plenty of experience with anal and some who had never tried it before. The ones with lots of experience were able to relax on demand, which made it easier and more enjoyable for them. But first timers don't have that skill, and it takes time to develop.

    Honestly, I think practicing beforehand, like others have suggested here, is great advice. I was with one girl who was a first timer and she was interested in trying anal, so we did. It didn't go well. It was painful for her and we had to stop. She said it wasn't her thing and didn't want to try it again. I think that scenario is probably very common. But unbeknownst to me she did some practicing on her own and a few months later she asked if we could try it again, and it went great. We ended up doing anal quite a few times and we both enjoyed it.

    So yeah, spend some time on your own practicing. It puts you in complete control with no pressure from someone else. You can go at your own pace and get used to the feeling before trying the real thing.

    • thank you so much, i really wish an experienced man like you could fuck me :)

    • Well you'll have to find a gay one and that rules me out.

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  • When she says no don't stop she may actually mean dont

    NO! DON'T! & STOP!

    and when she starts bucking and jetting and screaming she might not actually be enjoying it but in pain trying to get away.

    https://youtu.be/-zHVW7Zy_vg?si=hz8xGzwkBHCn6Bzl

Most Helpful Girls

  • ------ play by yourself and do it.- then you can get a grasp for the sensations and if there's anything alongside it you may want (for instance if you feel better with having your penis stroked at the same time during bits.
    lots of lube and foreplay to be really turned on.
    try to stay relaxed and not tense up.

    • Hey thank you, so if the guy fucks me will i enjoy it

    • you may, you may not.

    • Thank you

  • just do it the 1st time i had it i got no lube infact he didn't even tell me he was going to do that... the hardest part is getting his dick inside you after that it's pretty good... overall.

    • So will I start to enjoy it quickly?

    • yes i always enjoyed receiving anal sex even the one's that made me sore where i had to take hot baths using epsom salt

    • I can't wait for a man to fuck me and cum inside me :)

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • Before you do that, go work temporarily at a candy factory so you can learn how to pack fudge.

    • I don't understand?

    • Of course not, you're trolling. 🙄🙄

    • No im really

  • Enjoy it! So much fun!

    • Thank you

  • Lots if lube. Lube up her ass until u think it's enough, then lube it up again

    • Can a man fuck me easily?

  • Use twice as much lube as you think you need, then use more. Also make sure the lube gets IN, not just surface layer.

  • You are not gay then.

  • Take much lube and do slow and it will be good

    • Do you like getting your asshole licked before anal?

    • Yes I love

    • That’s my favorite thing to do. Getting my face between a girls cheeks and licking her asshole turns me on so so much. Message me please. I would but my xper isn’t high enough.

  • Douche to wash yourself out. Lots of lube. Take your time. Maybe try some toys to slowly stretch/relax.

  • You won't know till you try it... find the right guy and take it slow

    • Would you do it if it were you?

  • probably poop

  • be completely clean and most importantly, relaxed. get real horny from other stuff and once its about to happen, it will feel amazing

    • Thank you, I hope it's worth it

    • it is really worth it

    • have you ever practiced with a dildo?

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  • Lots of lubricant and whoever receives should be cleared out, only did it to a woman , it’s too tight to me

  • Buy a trainer set of butt plugs and some quality lube and spend some time training your body first. Trust me, your first anal sex experience will be much better if you do that.

    • Will I enjoy it when a man fucks me?

    • I have no way to know. There are a lot of people who don't enjoy it, but also many who do. I enjoy it personally, but I didn't at first. It's an acquired taste and it took me a while to get there. Looking back on it I would have approached it differently given what I know now. I don't think most people have a good first experience. But being better prepared beforehand will make a positive first experience much more likely. Good luck.

    • So, does penis size and the age of the man who will fuck me matter? İ'm 24 years old,

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  • It is not that painful if done right.

    • What should I do to make it right?,

    • I'm a little scared

    • @anonymous what kinda booty u got?

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