I waited since feb of 2022 to literally yesterday for this guy to come back to pr and he is living out of states because I promised I would wait for him. He had sex with a coworker and my last was with him. I don’t know why I am like this.
Well you have been noble in this, another guy here said, and did what you said. Don't criticize your self for that.
Generally I don't think you should get back with someone that has cheated much less wait for them. In this case 11 months have gone past for him to change his mind but he hasn't.
He could suffer from hyper sexuality. That's not your fault.
The only fault, of course, is if he continues to do this and you keep allowing it to happen without consequence (within that which is legal of course).
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!I would dump him and move on. He betrayed you.
Sense February? Haven't you asked us about guys behavior sense then? I thought you've been dating, messaging guys? but whatever, assuming you did wait, agreed to what and he did that, try not to dwell on it, you've got to trust people in relationships so it's on them when they betray it. If you put up walls and don't trust anyone you'll never get anyone so you can't do that, have to trust a little.
Only take away is I personally wouldn't do any long distance promises again.
That doesn't sound like you're the problem (other than waiting and that's actually pretty noble) it's sounds like he's the problem.
I don’t know why I thought it was a good decision to wait for him
In retrospect, it may not have been a good decision. BUT... that doesn't make anything wrong with you.
He’s a degenerate man whore anyways. Time to cut him out of your life
I really need to do that
Yup. I wish you the best
It sucks but it’s for the best
Experience is the best teacher, we live and we learn.
If he didn't wait for you, kick him to curb.
There's nothing wrong with you. You did exactly what you were supposed to do. He is the weak one. You should kick him to the curb and then go have sex. He doesn't deserve you. You deserve someone that you can trust and treats you with respect.
Your loyalty is not a problem. His lack of loyalty is.
Nothing. You're just in love, but I think it's time to DTMFer and move on. NEXT!!!
Girl bye
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