What to do about girlfriends sister who keeps touching and rubbing against me?

[Anonymous]

When I am over my gfs house her sister sometimes 'bumps' into me where her hand rubs against my leg or crotch or butt. She did this few times but did not think too much but now I know she is doing it on purpose. She does it at least couple times a week. She's 18 and my girlfriend did tell me she likes me. Do I just ignore it and avoid her as much as possible? That is my plan now. I do not want to tell my girlfriend that she is doing those things and cause huge argument.

[NarutoUzumaki007]

just ignore it dude
and avoid her sister as much as you can

because the moment you discuss it with your girlfriend , there will be a fight between you and her and then a fight between her and her sister...

people usually believe their family in matters like these , you dont know maybe her sister will lie to your girlfriend and say she never did it and will accuse you of trying to hit on her or something like that

best would be to avoid her or when she does it the next time tell her not to do it point blank

or wear a gopro camera and record it while it happens

[Asker]

Ya might have to talk to her when I can get her alone and tell her to stop.

[ChocoBrownieMonster]

It's an uncontrollable urge from the girl, she's attracted to you. I'd just talk to her privately and say touching me without asking me isn't very nice.
That if she asks politely you may say yes or no, but her sister is your girlfriend and you dont want to upset her. The idea is not to hurt her feelings and stop her. Ignoring her will only spur her on i think, be upfront.

[Asker]

True. I think it will get worse if I totally ignore and don't want a war with her and my girlfriend. I need to talk to her in private. You mean letting her touch me sometimes might help calm her down?

[ChocoBrownieMonster]

if you PM i'll talk to you a bit more

[Asker]

K man thanks ya if I let her feel me I might get hard so I don't know

[ChocoBrownieMonster]

id honestly advice you dont allow her to do that at all, she may be trying to get her sister to break up with you to get with you. Sibling rivalry. If your girlfriend does break up with you, id still avoid the girl. You'll seriously hurt her and cause a family feud. Id also advice against talking to your girlfriend about it, you'll cause an argument and trust me families always stick together. That girl is just trouble, i had a problem with my housemates girlfriend she'd flirt and sit with me legs touching infront of him. Once she came to my room and sat with me talking, but if in the house she'd get close i'd say to her i feel uncomfortable then go to my room close door behind me. She'd try it on with all the housemates, she was trouble.

[Anonymous]

You should tell her but also say that you don't like it. Just be honest with her and tell her you don't know what to do.

[Anonymous]

I bet you like it since guys want attention like that

[Asker]

She does get me hard sometimes but still

[MrTuxedo]

Just avoid and ignore her for a while. If she decides to take it to the next level, then you should talk to your girlfriend.

[Kaneki05]

Tell her your gonna avoid her sister because she keep trying to get close to you, and you know she likes me and i feel uncomfortable with it. Shouldn't be that hard for your girlfriend to understand.

[Asker]

I don't want my girlfriend to know yet since they fight a lot over much smaller things

[Dargil]

Do your best to ignore it.
Or...
"my girlfriend did tell me she likes me."
*How does she feel about that?

[here2helpuALL]

Sounds like since your girlfriend already knows you should tell her. That would be the one with the safest outcome

[Asker]

My girlfriend does not know she would be arguing with her for sure

[here2helpuALL]

I'd still tell her and let them hash it out

[Wise4myage]

Then tell her to knock it off and If she doesn't, then tell your girlfriend.

[Asker]

Ya might have to talk to her when I can get her alone and tell her to stop.

[Wise4myage]

Do that, or you could run the risk of your girlfriend thinking something is going on because you never said anything to her.

[Asker]

I know what you mean just don't want my girlfriend to know yet since they fight a lot over much smaller things. I just don't want to hear them arguing more.

[Wise4myage]

I hear ya, but her sister is being a snake in the grass.

[Asker]

True that is why this is tough for me on what to exactly do.

[COMMODOREII]

I wonder if your girlfriend already knows.

[Twalli]

Why would it cause an argument? Unless you mean between your girlfriend and her sister

[Asker]

Ya between them--they fight lots over much smaller things

[Twalli]

Have you tried telling the sister you are not interested.

[Asker]

Ya might have to talk to her when I can get her alone and tell her to stop.

[GreenGold1992]

Tell your girlfriend about it

[In_Trance]

Give her some vitamin D

[Asker]

Lol I think she would be real tight if I do

[asshole_]

Might be trying to test you, to see if you'd cheat

[Asker]

I think she def wants me to dick her down if I wanted

[asshole_]

Yeah she's trying to test you

[tallcuck]

Fuck her, you gonna split up sooner or later anyway

[Asker]

You have a point-toward end of relationship I might do her I don't know

[chris0810nv]

that's obvious fuck her

[Asker]

Lol she would be real tight if I do

[billluc69]

maybe ask both of them if they want to take this to bed