What to do about my boyfriend's foot/pain fetish?

[Briannalynn99]

My boyfriend recently opened up about a couple fetishes he has. He asked if i'd put oil on my feet and jerk him off. I'd be okay with trying that, i want to please him, but he also kick and knee him in the testicles 😟 i dont want to hurt or cause lasting damage but he says he'll be okay. I've never used my feet on a guy let alone hit him down there, any advice for either situation? I don't know how to do a footjob and i really dont want to hurt his balls 😟

[PrettyPriya]

First, have your boyfriend get an account here. We have many users that have a groin strike fetish. They are 99% trolls however. Just warn him to word his questions here wisely or he may end up with moderators removing his questions and in some cases freezing his account.

Outside of that…. he has a fetish that I find gross tbh. I don’t mind if my SO touches my feet. But to fetishize them? No thanks. Nor would I preform any sexual acts with my feet. If he asked, we’d have some issues. Best tell him you are not interested. That will end all fetish requests if he has any sort of respect for you.

Now, why would he want you to hit him in the testicles? What does that have to do with a foot fetish anyhow? That’s another fetish that is pointless. I think you need to tell him to stop with the fetishes and get some help. If you don’t, they will just keep coming and get more and more perverse.

[Briannalynn99]

I dont understand it either, he has allways played with my feet or tickled me when laying on the couch but i never thought anything of it. Now he says he wants me to put lotion on my feet and jerk him. Weird enough i know 😑 but then he says he also thinks he'd like if i kick him in the balls a little bit. He said the two fetishes go hand in hand for a lot of guys i guess. Feels demeaning he wants my feet instead of my ass or something 😥

[PrettyPriya]

The real issue is the kicking him or striking his testicles in any manner could cause serious damage if done once or multiple times. It is quite the dangerous fetish. What happens if you marry and you both want children only to find out that permanent damage to his testicles has happened? All over a fetish? If it were me, I’d simply refuse to participate in his fetish. If he has any sort of respect for you, he will drop it.

[Briannalynn99]

No kidding i dont want to hurt him much less make him infertile. He's gonna have to settle with the other part of his fetish and be happy. I want kids someday and kicking him in the testicles sure won't help that! Thanks!

[jak0b]

To make it better, you can be a bad girl, maybe he wants that, right? Tell him "I don't care about your stupid balls, but I want to have kids. So I won't give you the honor of kicking you". hehe

[Twalli]

Look up footjob porn online to learn how to do that and try light pain there first to make sure he likes it. My girlfriend wants me to spank her during sex. I started with light slapping until I was comfortable with more and I could see and feel her getting more turned on the harder I did it.

[Briannalynn99]

Easy enough i guess haha plenty of foot stuff i'll just start small and work up, i know i should just ask but i wanna surprise him with a FJ lol. Do most guys like em barefoot with oil? Lotta guys look at my feet in flip flops

[Twalli]

Never did that with my girlfriend, so I don't know how it actually works. I just know what it is frim seeing a footjob model transition to hardcore porn and give her agent a footjob at the end.

[Briannalynn99]

Oh i gotcha i thought maybe you had one, no worries 😅 tons of foot porn to figure it out haha. My man watches it all the time but im worried i'll dissappoint

[Twalli]

I'm guessing he knows you haven't done it before? Also if he hasn't received it before, he won't go in with any expectations

[Briannalynn99]

Yea he knew haha, luckily enough it went great and he really enjoyed it!

[Hanrej]

Compromise and ask if he might enjoy being hurt somwhere else. Then reveal somthing you want him to do for you.

My guess is he's submissive or want to be. Feet are sexy in the way that tending to them or having them pleasure you makes you feel a bit inferior.

[Briannalynn99]

Thats a good way to solve it, i'll try to be real good with my footjob he forgets everything else haha, any tips for a FJ? Whay would you want?

[Hanrej]

Well, I'm submissive like how I suspect your boyfriend is. For me personaly I would love to participate in acts that makes it feel like losing control and giving power over to the woman.

[Guy13]

Love up on it... until maybe...

[Guy13]

Look, draw your lines. Respect IN Love is a two-way street..."fun and "unfun"is real. Do you want to hate this guy... He should have known better, EVEN THOUGH, you did NOT protect you or him from Self... You never expressed your feelings. If you want to please him in a long-term way then draw lines. "oh shit.. I can trust her.. I mean damn, she knew more than me"... down the line. It is going to be work and balance for you throughout.

[jak0b]

Since he seems to like the domination/pain combination, maybe you both could indulge in something like "trampling" that is less dangerous.

[jak0b]

Or you can try some foot-gagging. You put one of your feet inside his mouth and gag him, while you masturbate him with your other feet, while sightly crushing his balls.

[DavidRaul]

Kicking him down there everytime you have sex may lead to damage such as penile dysfunction, it isn't advised. You can carry on with the footjob though

[Briannalynn99]

Thats what i was thinking, i dont want to hit him but if he wants my feet what the hell. How do i even give him a footjob though? Seems tough and I don't know what he'd like

[DavidRaul]

Its not really tough to give a foot job. Apply your skills similar to a hand job, you will eventually learn it. Nothing really hard

[DavidRaul]

Take his instructions just like you give when someone goes down there on you. See hows he reacting when you give a foot job and see what suits best

[Briannalynn99]

Thanks for the help i'll try to talk to him about the FJ and make my feet look good for him, he can figure it out from there

[kellytheman]

Well putting oil on your feet is probably okay but don't knee or kick in the testicles it will cause pain even though he wants you to. Use the bottom of your feet kinda in the middle of your feet where it curves.

[Briannalynn99]

Gotcha kinda stroke him with my arches. Simple enough lol. Any toes around him or anything or just arches. Im not gonna hurt his balls but i'll give him a footjob barefoot and stuff 😊

[kellytheman]

Yeah if you have flexible toes or you can move them easily he will like that to for teasing. Maybe a side note it might be turn on for him if you dress up. your toes by getting a pedicure and paint them and make them look pretty.

[Briannalynn99]

I just got a pedicure actually and painted my toes light blue 😄 i scrub my and put lotion inside socks and sleep with em on so my feet are very soft 😇

[Briannalynn99]

Hopefully the footjob will be so good he forgets ballbusting all together 😅 i'd rather he take his frustrations out fucking my barefeet 😊

[kellytheman]

Excellent guys actually do like girls who take care of there feet if they have a foot fetish or not.

[kellytheman]

You could also use his feet to rub and grind your pussy also do you get some pleasure.

[jjj101010]

Happy to give advice if u want? Follow me or message me

[Briannalynn99]

How should i give a footjob? that i dont mind, but should i really kick him in the testicles?

[jjj101010]

Follow me and I’ll message u

[jak0b]

That is not how it should be. A girl who does it, does it because she ENJOYS is. She doesn't worry to much about it. She likes to see the men fall to the fall like a loser and feels no remorse. Haha. If you feel bad or worry too much, this might not be for you.

[jak0b]

fall to the floor* sorry