What to do if a guy is too sexually frustrating to be around?

I have to live with a guy for a month or so, and he's really hot, but I'm too ugly to actually do anything with him. He'd never like me. Being around him drives me insane. What do I do? Please answer, even if you don't fully know. I've been asking this everywhere, it's killing me. Just think of me as actually ugly, cuz I am.
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My traits: 25 bmi, close together eyes, wide-ish nose, round face, acne, hair all over my body, one eyelid slightly noticeably lower than other, facial peach fuzz, thick eyebrows, weird side profile, long midface.
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It's hopeless. I'm hideous and he never seems like he really wants to talk to me, just like he wants to talk. The question now is, how do I tell him I can't talk to him anymore? If I have to deal with him much longer, I'm going to go insane.
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  • I'm assuming you just want him to want sex with you and do not expect him to be your boyfriend. I'm sorry if I'm reading you wrong. Go Brazilian "down there, front and back". Start walking around the house in only a long t-shirt and lace/see through bikini panties. Wear a beautiful, but not strong, perfume - such as Nina Ricci L'air du Lemps. Let him accidentally catch you watching porn on your laptop or the TV in the living room. Pick up a nice bottle of Tequila (e. g. Patron) with a lemon and salt shaker, then tell him you are celebrating something great that happened to you and ask if he would like to take a shot with you, then another, then another. Tel him "confidentially" that you have been really horny and say that you just wish you could find a Friend with Benefits/F**k Buddy, but that you don't want to get serious with anybody because you are too busy these days and value your freedom and privacy. "Accidentally" leave your toy out. Just brainstorming how to leave thd door open, ehile leaving it up to him to suggest it or make the first move. How can I see a picture of you?

  • Just turn him in to a friend in your mind, don’t sexualise him.

    that way you don’t get turned on or frustrated.

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  • Tell him what you want and let him be the judge of how "ugly" you are. Just be aware that your insecurity about your looks could open you up to being taken advantage of, so make sure he's genuine and not just seeing it as an opportunity to use you for sex.

  • Just throw it on him. Go for the gold. If he is nice he will turn you down in a decent nice manner of he isn't interested and you can't take it hard. Or you could always move out. Only two options. You never know he might be into having private time with you. Don't know if you don't ask.

    #Schrodinger's Cat

  • Hit on him. Either he'll give you what you want or at least you tried and can get it out of your system.

  • Seduce him

  • Sneak into his room at night. Sneak under the sheets, suck the soul out of his dick and balls. Take the cum in your mouth, must swallow. Nobody wants a mess in the middle of the night. Give him a kiss, don't let him touch you or try anything else, whisper an appreciative but soft "thank you" in his ear, go back to your room, masturbate if you're horny. He might marry you in the morning.

    • That doesn't exactly sound like a good idea

  • 18.5-24.9 BMI is normal. So, you’re good there.
    For hair, here’s an idea... Shave?
    The only tips I can give you are either move out or masturbate enough times on a daily basis so that you can handle yourself around him.

  • guys ain't like that, we ain't judgmental when it comes to looks so we won't turn u down if ur ugly, dont u know guys are the horniest gender? u should try cos most guys would shag a tree if it was possible, most of us jus shag our hand so we'd be extremely lucky to get any pussy, even if the girl was ugly, we'd be greatful, so u should try with him... there was a girl who once thought i was hot but i always thought i was ugly and she was hot and i would of fucked her, but i felt too ugly to even try.. i jus let pass me by and she had no idea i fancied her too... and id also shag the ugliest girl in the world... beggars can't be choosers..

  • How do you know he'll find you ugly? Honestly for some guys, all that's needed is for the person to have female parts. I consider myself a soft 5 (hard 5 if I wear a baseball cap), yet my girlfriend sees me as far more attractive. Maybe this guy will see you different than you see yourself. The only way you can find out for sure is to risk rejection when you decide it's now or never.

  • Coul ask him, worst he could say is no

  • First of all, stop degrading yourself. If you only focus on the negatives, negative is all you will see. And there were a couple of details that can be fixed by you. Just saying

    Secondly, NEVER, and I mean ABSOLUTELY NEVER assume what another human desires. No two people have the same taste, interests, kinks, wants, etc, and if you tell yourself it is a no before even trying then it definitely will be a no. But there is a chance it could be a yes. If you focused on your strengths, found peace with who you are and what body you were given, and built confidence in yourself, there is a real possibility that you could attract that man regardless of how you think you look to others.

  • Offer him a BJ.

  • Give us a description of what you look like.

    • Shave off all those excessive hair and wax your eyebrows and you might actually have a chance 🦋 at the moment you probably look like a cave woman.

    • Like that'll change much at all

    • It will definitely help with a little confidence.

  • You need to tell him how you feel.