What to do if I am not attracted to my boyfriend's penis?

He's tall, buff and ruggedly handsome but his penis is a bit small and uncircumcised. I feel as if this is a turn off for me even though his head game is fire. What should I do?
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  • Try to find some sexologists on Youtube (don't go to porn sites, those are trash.

    You'll both learn a lot on how to use the most of everything. Unfortunately you cannot change his dick's size and you cannot force him to get circumsiced. But he can get more attractive in other things to compensate, like learning how to tease you, or use his dick better or in different ways.

    You can both also try to find a fetish you both like. Don't focus on what you cannot change, but instead, on what you can improve or add to eclipse that :)

Most Helpful Guy

  • How would you like it if he wanted to break up because of the size of your boobs?
    He'd be a shallow male chauvinist pig, right?
    Yeah...
    Lesbians don't have dicks, they have fingers and tongues and toys.
    Go get some toys.
    Encourage his oral game.
    Get him a harness and a big dildo so you can get fucked hard by a far cock on occasion.
    If he's treating you right and you're so stuck on one body part... pretty shallow.
    I broke my back in the military. My junk doesn't always work and Viagra gives me headaches that leave me debilitated. My wife loves me and I want to please her.
    We found a Way forward.
    Do you love him?
    Figure it out.

Most Helpful Girls

  • Weigh your options.

    If his penis being small bothers you enough that the rest of his personality can't make up for it, than i would suggest leaving him.

    Just don't tell him I'm breaking up with you because you got a little gross uncircumcised dick.

    That shit will probably fuck his ass up.

  • Basically you should just expect it. Ask him whether he doesn't want to get circumcised (I also like seeing the head out lmao) , hear what he says. For the size you must just make the most of it. I hope he removes hair coz going down on a small guy who's hairy is really something that makes me wana puke

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  • He's only like six inches or less? Move on and find someone else. If you don't find him attractive, you're only delaying the inevitable. I think it's extremely unfair to him for you to feel this way, but more unfair to him to lie about it.

  • Since you don't accept him as he is you should do the right thing and end the relationship without telling him that particular reason. He deserves to be in a relationship where he is accepted. And you will be free to pursue relationships with guys who are cut and have penises that otherwise meet your standards.

  • im sorry? so because it looks smallish you dont like it? isn't it more important how it feels🤔

  • What is 'head game is fire'?
    Close your eyes? Don't look at it? Get a new guy?

  • Well, you said it. He’s tall, buff and rugged with a small one. That’s tough, especially being tall and muscular.
    I’d dump him. Don’t feel bad for being picky. I take it you’ve had good big penis before? And the downsizing isn’t working for you?


    Did you tell him anything or make a face or do anything different? How was the sex? Could you feel anything?

  • Welp either keep him or leave him cause you can't change him

  • It's your mistakes and lots of girls do the same mistake like you.
    First when you are young , you peoples find a hunk tall guy then complain about him after few years.

  • Ahh damn. I think I have the one he was supposed to have. Lol.

  • How small we are talking? And do you prefer circumcised?

  • Gimme your whatsapp
    will send you mine
    show it to him
    rest leave it upto me i will negotiate

    • What a pathetic idiot

    • @connemara_crocodile never said it to you, left over mariuajana!

  • Dont worry about it. The Penis isn't really that great looking to most. Just enjoy what it can do for you.

  • Hard question I'm at least 5'10 and uncircumcised my penis is 6.5 on a normal day is he the same?

  • Can he get the skin pulled down completely if you push it down? If not it could be phimosis. It's something that can be fixed without going for a circumcision if it's not an extreme case. Check it out if he has phimosis it's risky for him since it's easier for him to get infections there since it's harder to clean. If I were him I would go to an urologist if he has it. The good news is if it's that, his dick might look a little bit bigger after treatment.
    Good luck!

  • You should get over yourself if you like him

  • If you were my girl, I’d get it cut off for you so you didn’t get grossed out by it and I’d do you with strapons.

  • Dump him.
    Then when you're old and fat you can see if he wants to date you again.

  • Do you look at it much? In my experience women don't look there much anyway. Just focus on the rest of his body that does turn you on. That's what guys do in the reverse. Having said that, physical attraction is important, so if it's that big of a turn off for you, maybe he's not the guy for you then?

  • Stop looking at it and start taking it in to get used to it more. Try doggystyle to avoid looking at it