What to do when the d is so big it is painful?

What to do when the d is so big it is painful?
I am dating a guy who has a really big dick. I have had sex with seven guys but never anybody with his size or where it was so big it could be painful.

I like sex, we do foreplay, I get wet but sometimes it is painful anyway. When he goes deep is missonary or doggy style or even me riding him it feels like he is hitting my uterus so i feel the pain in my stomach and he is also wide so after sex especially if he had it multiple time i almost feel sore.

Do you have any tips in making it less painful or good positions?
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  • I have been told that to by a few of my girlfriends and I would try anything that wouldn't be so painful for her we tried everything from different angles and positions to me being careful not to go to deep eventually it got not so painful for her. I'm hoping that he respects your wishes and is willing to try anything that isn't so painful and I really think that you will get used to it. Have fun.

  • Definitely try more different positions and find the right angle you can take his whole huge cock without it hurting and you will be good to go! Have fun and enjoy! ❤️❤️😘

    • Thanks for the mho!

    • Thanks for the advice😊

    • Anytime beautiful 😘

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  • My tip is always to look for the right position for you as many positions aim to make him feel bigger something you dont want in that case
    Look here for positions you can try

  • I stop playing with it for awhile. Oh you mean when to big for her. i get that a lot. SO i just stop dreaming.

  • I don't know.
    The truth is i think guys that are too big have it worse than guys who are too small.
    I don't think there really is much that can help.

    • Yes, I think you might be right about that

    • Maybe try searching on the internet. You be surprised the advice you might come across using google

    • I am very small I think thats a bigger Problem. You can get used to a big but never to a too small penis

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  • troll

    • No, why should I waste my time trolling about guy’s penis size?:)

    • A vag is designed by nature to have a baby pass through. It can handle any dick size. If it hurts, you're not turned on enough. You're almost 30; how can you not know this?

    • can’t just put it like that. It also isn’t like child birth isn’t painful. You can’t just stick anything up and expect it not to hurt

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  • In my experience sometimes there is nothing you can do.

  • You are going to need his help with this. First of all, tell him when it hurts. He can't adjust if he doesn't know when he's hurting you. If its a depth issue (he pounds your cervix like he's driving a railroad spike), he can adjust to not go so deep and your problem is solved. For girth (he's trying to push a watermelon through a garden hose), lube and relaxation will help the most.

  • Live with it till the deed is done, then think of something nonsexual to deflate.

  • lube, lots of lube, sex never be painful if its enough lube.

  • Its painful when its keep on sliding deep

  • I don't have this kind of problem 😅

  • How big is his penis specifically? My guess is, you lost your virginity in high school, your teens

    • I didn’t measure it. Why.

    • I assume like 7 inches, that's above average, i made that guess because I sometimes envy people who became sexually active in their teens, I sadly didn't

    • I suppose it is minimum 7 inches. And I wouldn’t envy that. My first time was when i was 15 with my boyfriend i stayed with for four years, it was not good and I wish i waited for someone more special who treated me better.

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  • Be sure to tell him what he does that hurts. In missionary, hold his hips so you can hold him back if he's getting carried away and consider keeping your legs closer together so he can't get close. He should respect wishes and not go deep if you specifically tell him not to.