Hmm... That's not a kink in my mind...
Sadly, that's the reason I argue that plenty of sex before marriage is important...
If that's what he likes and you're turn off by it...(or there's something you like but turns him off...)... Sooner or later, depending on his contact with people... He'll find a woman who enjoys doing that to him...(similar for you...)
To you... I'd say... Washing your hands is really not that difficult... Just do what he likes since it's not at all extreme in the scheme of sexual things people might enjoy...
We did have sex before marriage but I didn’t know he liked it then until recently and he asked me. I do wash my hands... anyway you think it’s bad if I ask to have sex with other people since I think that may be one of my kinks?
If it's a newly developed thing... Then fair enough that you'll need time to work through it... If you wash your hands properly, then the smell might be a mental thing more than an actual thing... Personally... I don't think sex is that big a deal other than for procreation... And nobody can satisfy another person completed in all ways (sex and otherwise...) But while we accept a partner finding a tennis buddy or bridge partner... Fully acknowledging that we are either not interested in that or not very good in that... Sex is taboo going by the same logic...
For me... If I'm not satisfying my partner sexually... I'll have no problem letting her have sex with someone more in her league (or certain acts I'm not willing to do...)... As long as she or someone she allows can satisfy my lesser sexual needs... The bottom line, to me, is whether she is happy with her life... If it takes someone else to sexually satisfy her to make her happy... Then so be it... If you're not joshing me and really it's one of your kinks to have sex with others... Perhaps you two can strike a compromise... He finds someone to do his back door while you find someone to have sex with... Might even come in as a couple which would work out perfectly...
I mean the kinks seem standard, and I mean make your feelings known but as much as I hate to say it, if he really enjoys it then maybe take one for the time? If you can't you can't then that's fine.
You really need to talk to him.
What’s the point in talking? He’s going to like what he likes. I can’t change him and I can’t change the fact that it’s a turn off for me.
Use latex gloves. And if you don’t want to do it then don’t. My SO isn’t into any of my kinks and I just accept it. It’s unsatisfying and frustrating for him but he has to accept your boundaries.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!Yes it's typical to feel that way. Ask him if you can use an object instead.
The obvious answer is you’re not sexually compatible and is starting to make itself known
On kinks that's probably the most normal I've heard on here. Try wearing a latex glove.
Tell him about it. Get him to shower before maybe and use lots of good smelling shampoo and body wash?
Not sure sounds weird to me but thats just my opinion I have a kink i love to give oral love love love it and i love the women to cum on my face is that a bad kink to have
I wish this was his kink
Is it bad i mean i want the women to rub herself all over my face not once i love to give multiples like 4+
Doesn’t sound bad to me
It's not normal
You're probably better with you hands... time to train more with the other. :)
If he like that, maybe wear latex gloves, pour lube on them and give him a handjob and use the other to circle his butt and then maybe insert a finger to see if he likes it. That way you can throw them out afterwards and your hands stay clean. (I would love my SO to do that)
Yh buy him a dildo instead
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