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What to do when you can't get it up with a woman?

It's not ED, I can when masturbating
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Superb Opinion

  • Don't be overly concerned about it. At 22 in Florida, at spring break, I could not get a hard-on with a gorgeous, shapely, 19-year-old I met on the plane. Even later on at her home in Ohio and out on a Saturday night, I could not get hard, in my car. I SHOULD HAVE eater her pussy, on each of those 'limp penis' ocassions, but at 22, I was too stupid and freaked out to think straight.

    Psychological- but troubling, I know.

    • As an addendum, let me add, that I was naked with both her (Sony) and her sister in my hotel room, and wanted the sister to get in bed with us. She declined, and SLEPT IN THE FLOOR, which was really disconcerting, and at 22, I just did not think about just how LUCKY I was to be in that situation. I worked at a trucking company with a lot of "would be" lover boys and I never bothered to even tell them anything, as I was the "kid" who 'probably never got laid" LOLOLOL

Most Helpful Guy

  • Do a lot of foreplay, if you're not already and make sure to tell her it isn't her that has anything to do with your problem. I've had that problem when I was young and the girls would blame themselves, which made me feel even worse.

Most Helpful Girls

  • Don't masturbate as much and stop watching porn IMMEDIATELY if you do.

    • Can you explain why?

    • "The use of pornography might change the way the brain reacts to arousal, making a man less likely to feel aroused by a real-life partner." www.medicalnewstoday.com/.../317117

      Basically, one woman will never be able to provide the novelty and variety of porn. You can see completely different people and acts with a single click. It's like the fast food of sexuality.

  • Do you know why you can’t get it up for her?

    • I'm super anxious before sex

    • Ok what are you anxious about?

    • Act of sex

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • drop a viagra right then and come back in 30 minutes?

    • Something more on the fly I need

    • A body double... I am expensive substitute though...

    • Not here for meme answers...

  • It means that you have some anxiety about having sex with a woman. When you masturbate, do you fantasize about women?

  • Stop masterbating and looking at porn. Stop trying to fuck ugly fat cows who nag and act like bitches. Just a few thoughts.

  • Sleep with her naked. But actually sleep. You will likely be hard b4 the morning and she will be completely wet.

  • Stop jacking off and watching porn.

    • Can you explain how it's related?

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