What to men think about dominant females?

I am a dominatrix... also a sadomasochist. Curiosity go the best of me lol I must know mens take on women taking on "mens dominant roles" (not that i believe in that). Pure curiosity do any men like dominant females
What to men think about dominant females?


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  • Personally not my type. In bed or out of bed. I prefer to be equal with my wife. I do like it when she takes charge in bed. However we somewhat normally take turns somewhat. Depending on the mood were in that day. It could be either me or her in charge. I also really don't like pain with sex. I do enjoy my wife messing with me lovingly and maybe inflicting some discomfort. Our favorate activity besides swinging is to share a double headed dildo.
    My freind has a very dominant wife that he enjoys. She enjoys beating him up and we do have to sometimes separate those two when he is not in the mood to be treated like her little brother. In bed I found her to be actually quite submissive. At least with me while we were swinging. I even got her to do anal and squirt from it. Anal is something her husband has never done right.
    I tried playing with a sadist woman with my wife watching but I just could not mix the pain and pleasure enough to make it enjoyable. I did love fucking my wife while the woman poked needles into her nipples.

  • I like strong females, but I don't like suicidal females. In other words, I am readily accepting of women having their way and giving them what they want. However, if they are about to get into trouble in the real world by being headstrong, not thinking, and about to make a bad decision, then I will speak up. Basically, I am like a dog.

    Meanwhile, here's the song for you:

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XX88XJaJ_bg
    • oooo... like a dog huh?

    • If you want, PM me and we can talk about it.

    • im about to hop off the computer anyways so maybe some other time lol ;)

Most Helpful Girl

  • I'm dominant as well and there are plenty of guys who love submitting to a girl.

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  • I recently met an alpha female.. not really your type, she doesn't dress in costumes
    or anything like that just a strong willed modern woman. It's a little frightening.

    • lol opinion accepted

  • According to statistics there are less women who are into it then men, so if anything you should ask yourself first, if you really exist. But still most men don't want to be dominated by woman, because it's very demasculinizing, in most cases. There are some males who are into it, but 'real men' are tend to not be into it. Personally I can respect an strong woman, sometimes, but I am not going to be pussy whipped by any bitch. :)

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  • If you are1a dominant woman naturally (about 1 in 999 women) than in order for a relationship to work you need to be with a submissive man by nature (about 1 in 3,000 men).

    If you date a dominant man then what will happen is throughout the relationship one of you will have to take on the opposite gender role from time to time (outside of the bedroom/verbal conversation/daily stuff, etc). Because this is unnatural unhappiness and unfullfillment will occur... then the arguing... then before you know it one person doesn't know what went wrong but it's wrong.

    This is why when you see gay people there is always a ELLEN (manly woman) and a girly woman. Same for guys.
    If you ever see two girly girls together then you know they are not real lesbians and they are just doing it for the fad.

  • Not into that.

  • I love dominant women

  • Fuck those dragon ladies... If I wanted a partner with a set of balls I would be gay wouldn't I? lol

    • well... wtf does dragon ladies mean?

    • LOL it means what it is... Ladies that have their guy's balls in their purses... You spot them right away I can tell you

    • There is a difference between BDSM relationships and being a possessive controlling stuck up bitch... i could show you someday ;)

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  • I don't think I would be into that.

  • I switch, and I study the psychological aspects of the lifestyle as a bit of a hobby. I love the ideas of both Dom and sub space, and I think that there is certainly something sexy about dominant women.

  • I find dominant females. . . interesting.
    I know a couple of women who are professional dominatrixes.
    One is the manager of a call centre by day and by night charges men $600 for a two-hour session of bondage and ball torture.
    The other also specialises in ball torture.
    Getting off on their balls being beaten with whips, paddles, hands, pierced with needles and strangled by an elastrator seems to be a thing with men who pay to be with such women.
    I have found that such women also 'switch' and enjoy being tied up and playing out rape/torture fantasies with dominant men.
    I had sex with the $600 a session woman a few times. It was like two tigers mating. She must have enjoyed it, because she kept coming back for more.

  • Cool story

  • I don't care for control freaks.

  • Weird unappealing And she got daddy issues.

  • I like them.

  • I find it a bit of a turn off. I like women to be more feminine.

    I'm just not into that sort of kinky role play or at least being on the submissive end of it.

    • Most people are not into it, don't worry about that. :)

  • yes please!

  • I am dominant, my wife is submissive. The dominant women and submissive men are also a good combination.

  • As I said in a previous post, Dom/sub is a construct to define a sexual proclivity.

    Strong women are sexy, they are not helpless little lambs. They don't need me, they want me.

    Why a dude wants to be sexually dominated? Who the hell knows. But I bet he's in a position of power at work.

  • I like it, just not all the time.

  • not interested in them at all
    im a dominant and i always prefer submissive women

    • hey thats all right i have some dom male friends and tbh they are my best friends lol

    • ahan good to know that

  • Not purely dominant females. I like switches or submissive girls.

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