What to use for lube for handjobs? And handjob techniques?

I'm new in the field of handjobs, and how exactly does this work? And what do you use for lubricant, if any at all? Is there a certain technique? And how do you work your way to it?
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  • no lube, don't pull down too far you'll hurt his foreskin, the tip is more sensitive then the base. after he cums, slow down your pace and only tug it for a short short bit after then stop, it hurts if you keep tugging after he cums. ask him if it feels ok, use quick questions, faster? squeeze tighther? is this good? some guys like it when you rub just underneath their balls where the prostate is, please don't stick a finger in his bum unless he asks for it though lol, most guys are used to tugging it pretty vigorously so you might have to give'r. firm grip. take out your breasts and let him see them. rub your nipple on his cock and let him cum on it. be gentle when he finishes and get some wet wipes and clean him off after.

  • Ah ah, congratulation, first learn the male anatomy, meaning, where it feels good or better. You can use basic lube or saliva, some skin cream may also do it but carefull for skin reaction. On the tecnical side, see the penis as a supersize clitoris, the head is well the same for you, right under is the super sensible spot, then all the urethra all the way to the A-hole, not a joke, a dick goes back in & it a nice spot. The mistake girls make is to massage the side near the guy stomach, wrong by 180 degres.
    also p*rn for dick masage are a good start, it might be p*rn , but a dick massage is a dick massage.
    my best wishes to you and your lucky guy.
    regards

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  • If the guy isn't circumcised, lube shouldn't be necessary, but can still be fun. I've no personal experience but I've heard circumcised guys need lube more.

    Safest bet would be warer based lubes you can get from adult shops tgat are designed to ve used on the genitals. But if you can't get hold of it, and it doesn't freak you out to much, saliva works too.

  • Here is what I don't understand. a woman will NEVER be able to give a handjob better then the guy can give himself. He has been doing it so long. It is true when I was married I liked to have my wife give me one every few years just because I liked to watch her looking at my cock while she did it. But really we have the handjob down and a blowjob is, most of the time, better then intercourse. So why not do that.
    You don't always need to use lube. you can use spit if you need to.
    If it must be a handjob then just have him tell you what he wants and listen. You can't hurt him so squeezing won't hurt.

  • You can get lubes at the store, or you could try using something like baby oil or hand cream. Just put the lube on your hand and spread it over the penis. Grab the foreskin (not too tight and not too loose) and stroke it up and down until the guy cums, that's all really.

  • Its like shaking w ketchup bottle

    • A* stupid button

    • You mean you have to smack it on the end to get anything out of it? 😂

    • XD yes @Michael-in-SC. But seriously, same technique

  • Date an uncircumcised guy and no lube will be needed. 😂

  • Coconut oil, without doubt.

  • Use KY Jelly. Straddle him. Put your left hand at the base of his penis. Use your right hand to stroke the upper half. Good luck!

  • Use spit.
    Ask him to show you.