What to wear for your first time having sex?

I have never had sex. I plan on having sex soon. What should I wear.
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  • Your love for each other, trust for relationship, strong desire, confidence, comfort and pleasant smile are must in the first place. The first time sex is particularly important for both partners so well done on being thoughtful and planning ahead! Of course, you would like it to be inimitable and memorable. Ultimately while penetrating and enjoying pleasant moments, you both will be wearing nothing, but before that - undressing each other is a great foreplay and most stimulant activity to enjoy ultimate pleasure. Here are some dresses you could wear for the first time sex. Most women own special lingerie set just for sex. A set of matching bra and panties always looks beautiful and attractive and it is the most obvious choice. Most men prefer black; it is a universal one and definitely look gorgeous on any skin type. Babydoll – is a sexy little dress can open up the maximum of the female body. This type of negligee is ideal for girls who want to look feminine and elegant for the first-time sex, it makes you feel more confident during sex. A satin robe is also a perfect thing to wear for the first time sex. It covers the most attractive parts of your body but leaves plenty of room for imagination. These dressing gowns are not tight-fitting so always a good fit. is pretty much guaranteed. You can surprise your partner by combining a babydoll or bralette set with the satin robe, he will find a bombshell hidden under it. Long nightgown makes every girl look like a queen. And you deserve to be a queen on the first time of your intimacy. Nothing, yes, this is not a typo. He loves you in your everyday dress. Sometimes keeping it simple is the key. Feeling comfortable during your first time is very important. If you do not think you will feel great wearing any of the above then maybe sticking to your casual clothes is the best option.

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  • Cute / Sexy bra and panties lol anything that makes you feel confident when you wear it. Also wear a nice smile too lol

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  • Just wear something nice that can be removed easily. You don't have to go out of your way to wear sexy clothes, aside from pretty underwear. Get a pair of sexy, matching, lacy bra and panties that don't cover much.

    Don't wear anything during sex, though. Bare yourself to him. You'll feel very vulnerable, but he'll find your nervousness and self-consciousness charming. And when he surveys your naked body, he'll think you are the most beautiful creature in the world. Surrender to him and let him drink in your feminine beauty.

  • Depends on what plans you have before sex.
    In general go with something that makes you feel good, sexy and confident but at the same time something easy to remove because if you are nervous a complicated fastening isn't going to be easy if your hands are shaking.

    Make sure you have protection as a backup just in case he forgets e. g. "oops left my wallet in the car"

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  • It’s not what you should wear it’s what you should do. Lower your expectations. Hopefully it’s everything you want it to be, but more often than not it’s a big disappointment for women.

  • Welcome to Gag Town and Best of Luck. A Sexy Nighty Then----Nothing. xx

  • One wears a condom the other a smile

  • Wear nothing. If you are prone to cold feet, wear a pair of small simple socks. Honesty, I don't care how hot the woman is, cold feet are a serious distraction in bed. At your stated age, you're a bit late to the game. Enjoy yourself.

  • Lingerie isn't required. If you want to make it special like in a relationship, by all means you can wear it.

    Bra and panties underneath like someone else said is fine.

  • Your birthday suit?

    If you mean "what should you wear before having sex?" the answer depends on where you will be going and what you will be doing.

  • A big smile and no clothes... enjoy...

  • There's only one thing that needs to be worn and he needs to wear that's a condom. well you can always wear a smile

  • Laced matching set has never done me wrong

  • um...
    you do know you are naked when you have sex right?

    • Yeah I know. I want to look nice before as well.

    • He's really hot and I can't believe someone like him could be interested in. I am average looking at best. I want to look nice. I have asked friends and they say basic is best like black boots blue jeans and black top.

    • Just wear spme nice sexy underwear. You dont ha e to go over the top. A nice little gstring and a cheeky revealing bra is all you need to start woth. Dont spend a ton of money on expensive lingerie until you know what he likes.

  • Oh, nothing ;)

  • Probably a lot easier if you don’t wear anything.

  • Most people don't wear anything.

  • Wow congrats. Better later then never. Have you told the guy that your a virgin yet?

    • yes. He took it better than expected

    • He’s probably excited. How old is he? I would be shocked (and excited) if I got a chance to pop a cherry at my age. It would make me feel 18 again. I would feel very special to do the honors. Anyway I can see why you are nervous about this. This is seems like a huge life event for you. But I can tell you it’s not that big of a deal. It’s not a shuttle lift off. Yes I know I’m a man saying that but really it’s mostly biological function. My advice is to comunícate with him as much as you can. Try your best not to overthink it. Take at slow and expect some pain (mixed with pleasure). You will be nervous but in this scenario you are NOT selfish having this be a complete focus on you. It’s a special situation and most decent guys would have patience here. If I was him I would do a bunch of other stuff to “warm you up”. But just curious why did you wait so long? I find this interesting.

    • I didn't get out much, my very strict mom and depression. He is 40 turning 41 this year.

  • These alone.

    What to wear for your first time having sex?

    They'll keep your feet warm and look hot.

  • Something appropriate for whatever you will do before having sex, nice panties and bra, and then get naked when the time comes. Be confident.

  • It works best if you wear nothing!

  • Nothing too complicated.

  • You can't go wrong with black or red lacy lingerie, maybe some stockings too if you're feeling confident

  • Cute panties and anything you're comfortable in

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