What types of traits do you like in a primarily submissive girl? Additional questions?

What types of traits do you like in a primarily submissive girl? Additional questions?
-Would you rather her be more into kinky or vanilla (general romantic and gentle) sex?
-Would you like her to be verbal? In the sense that she whimpers and moans often?
-Do you prefer if she's actually a switch and will sometimes be dominant (albeit rare)? Or no?
-Would you prefer to have her do anything you say (like humiliating or degrading tasks), or simply do whatever you'd like to her (have your way)?
-Would you be interested in trying slave/owner, pet/owner, rope bubby/restraints and ddlg kinks with your sub girl?

What're your general and main interests and concerns with having a submissive girl?

Please answer all the questions if you can! :)
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  • I like the feminine traits, I like that she except the fact that men are stronger, and not giving an feminist rants about it, I believe that women tend to be naturally submissive. I find it quite funny that you give the option of vanilla sex, and even the option of her being dominant sometimes, how is that have anything to do with liking an submissive girl? she submit to be dominant? as for vanilla sex, I hear one submissive woman who that sex is an submission and humiliation for women by default/naturally, and so she didn't need an ropes and tools to feel humiliated during and after sex. As for how verbal she is, I am okay with it either way, and it's more depends on the place, and I don't need to explain why, even though this question also didn't have much to do with submission, except for the fact that in BDSM there is an ways to make a girl more quiet, beside the hand. I don't want the girl to be too dominant, as it can harm my masculine pride, but it's nice when a girl initiate sometimes and knows to ride, things like that. As for humiliating or degrading tasks, depends I have my limits, and she likely too, but having things my way, why would a man say no to that? an woman who is willing to please is always a plus, and that principle is true not only for BDSM. ddlg is too much for me, as it's reminds me incest too much, slave/owner make more sense, even pet/owner make more sense, likely because a girl in a pet role don't looks as realistic as a man in a father role. As for rope bubby/restraints, I don't think that a big and strong man need that to dominate a woman, but if a woman like those things then so be it. At least it's not as hard for a man to get around the idea of bondage, as much as it's hard for a man to totally give up on him gentleman code by hitting an woman, and hitting an defenseless woman on top of that. So it seems that you more into 'light' type of BDSM, are you not? I mean you didn't mention anything that inclusive hitting/whipping. :)

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    • I mean "I like that she accept the the fact".

  • I will give it my best shot!
    First off it all depends on your Partner and yourself, You have to have communication in your relationship and just come straight out with all your desires, fantasies and concerns. Find out if they are acceptable of certain things and explain it's just play, can you do whatever or say whatever but don't take offense. If they have insecurities then you have to work out what they are take things little by little. Just keep check and balances as you do each activity. Me personally I have a very open mind and can be very playful, naughty or nice, so I would be down to try everything and anything. I would let the ultimate choice come up to your Partner and together explore and grow together.
    Woo! That's all I got, I hope this helped your curiosity and knowledge grow. 💪🎓😊😉
    Good luck on your findings.

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  • yes i would probably love her to be kinky
    yes moaning is good but not always so loud
    no i wouldn't like her to be a switch
    i would probably love to humiliate her and degrade her a bit and have things mostly my wa
    yes may be a slave/owner or some BDSM
    well all i care about is her being submissive and ready for all my kinks and rough plays , to be ready to be dominated and happy with all my kinks , that will make her perfect :D

  • I love dominant girls, that picture was me last night

  • No gag reflex and a preference for other women and anal sex comes to mind

  • Obidience, granted in freie will basis

  • Kinky, verbal (though not extremely loud), switch (as I am), either/both (ordering/doing). Slave, pet, restraints sound fun (as long as it is only temporary, in the bedroom only), ddlg is a massive turn off.

  • She must moan cleverly.. rolling up her eyes.. eye contact is so begging.. talk dirty