I think you are missing the point especially since you're the one that's the man. Lust and urges have nothing to do with each other. Lust is lust and urges is urges. Having urges is something that is human to do. Lust is a personal choice. Some can control that. Others cannot. It's something that everybody should practice having self-control. However, not everybody does that because they do that based on lost. The problem is is that it has nothing to do with that is hindering meant to succeed. But that meant you to lust because again they just want sex. They don't respect themselves. They don't respect the women. They don't respect anybody else. That's the problem.
In order for people to succeed, theu have to focus on the things of God, get right with God, and do what they got to do in God. Everybody has their own unique gifts. And each gifts are uniquely given by the father. And because of that, people have to do what they have to do. If these men are called to marriage, then does nothing wrong with Desiring sex with somebody that they can be close with, but it has to be somebody they are married to. That also means they should not be fornicating, not to be masturbating, leave sexual perversions alone, that equally includes pornography. But since people don't want to do that anymore, then they end up ruining themselves. The Bible clearly says this. My people perish for the lack of knowledge. Satan will do anything to destroy mankind. But if people would only choose to do stupid, then they have nobody else to blame but themselves. That's all. And that goes for everybody. Everybody reads what they sow.
One thing to remember is the urge is not a sin. Lust is.
I lust for my wife. That makes me strive harder and for more to provide a better life for us. I would say anything can be helpful or a hinderence depending on your focus. i would say it has no effect. I work 80 hours a week masturbate or have sex every night. I make 120000 A year and have advanced consistently in my work on wind turbines. Have two homes paid off two vehicles paid off and 100000 in the bank. I think it is 100% the individual
lust for wife? what? how long have you been married?
Two years.
Oh man world leaders have been toppled by sex. The other one I'd say is greed. You see a guy w 5 million dollars lose it all because he wanted 10 million.
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