Girls, What would the ideal penis size for sex be?

[Anonymous]

Like what would the most pleasurable size be? Is there such a thing as too big? I measure around 6.5 inches and feel it could be bigger.

[Tiffany_Taylor_Made]

Whenever I answer similar penis size preference questions, I normally post that the most ideal penis size for me is between 7-9 inches. My experiences with dicks bigger than 9 inches were mostly uncomfortable, which would qualify as "too big" for me. However, my reasoning for preferring anything between 7-9 inches is not entirely based on the size itself providing pleasure. Instead, my size preference is more so based on 7-9-inch penises providing pleasure in any position compared to other sizes. For example, if a guy fucked me with a 5-inch dick, I would still experience some pleasure, but because my fully aroused vagina is much deeper than 5 inches, he might be unable to reach the most pleasurable areas of my vagina without assistance from specific sex positions. However, if a guy fucked me with a 7-9-inch dick, he would be able to reach my most pleasurable spots in any positions due to my vaginal depth being a similar size or smaller. Thus, personally, the most ideal sex is pleasurable sex in any position, hence 7-9 inches.

However, this doesn't rule out sex with penises smaller than ideal. The possibility of having pleasurable sex with them still exists if the couple can master the techniques and positions required to pleasure each other fully. As a result, don't worry about whether or not your penis size is considered "ideal." Simply understand that, at 6.5 inches, your dick is more than capable of providing a woman with satisfaction. As long as you focus more on other things such as ensuring that your dick stays hard, mastering many sex positions, especially those that could make any penis size feel bigger, working on your stroke and overall technique to her most pleasurable spots and prevent cumming too fast, and so on, then your penis size wouldn't matter too much. Even if your penis size might be considered less than ideal to the woman that you're interested in, this doesn't automatically mean that she won't consider you or stick with you because we often tend to prioritize what is better for us or what works rather than what we idealize.

[Asker]

So what is the average around vagina than. Because iv heard 6.5 inches is above average but I feel like i could stand to be larger. I want to be able to give a women good sex and not have to think that I'm not good enough. It also has an upward curve which I heard targets the g spot better. So maybe that's worth something.

[Tiffany_Taylor_Made]

The average fully aroused vagina is around 7 inches. That means your size should be the perfect length to satisfy the average woman. Having good sex with a woman takes a little time. Do it with someone that truly loves you, not a one-night stand. That way, you are more likely to have sex with her more than once, have time to learn her body, and perfect your technique. Also realize that sex is not always about her. It's about you too. Also, yes, you're right. Dicks with an upward curve have an easier path to the G-spot. That's another plus. However, none of this matters if you're not actually out there fucking and perfecting your technique.

[Asker]

Well iv never been into the idea of a one night stand. And am currently in a relationship but we haven't had sex yet. So 6.5 inches should be a good length for many women?

[Tiffany_Taylor_Made]

Yeah, you shouldn't have anything to worry about. 6.5 inches should definitely get the job done. If you don't mind me asking, how old are both of you? Are you both virgins?

[Asker]

I'm 24 she's 20 and yes we are virgins.

[Tiffany_Taylor_Made]

Even better. You're both inexperienced, meaning that you both can experiment and learn each other.

[Asker]

Why did you ask for our ages anyway?

[Tiffany_Taylor_Made]

Because people of different ages tend to have different views on sex and ways that they are satisfied. Age also tends to go along with experiences, whereas older people tend to have more sexual experience.

[Asker]

Ah ok. I also have another question if you dont mind. So she is black. So are black women deeper on average? I mean if black men are suppose to be bigger (even if it is only by about half an inch on average) are black women deeper?

[Tiffany_Taylor_Made]

Well, I don't have any experience with Black pussy other than my own, nor have I ever asked any other Black women how deep their vagina is. That would be awkward. Personally, my fiancee's dick is 8 inches and I can take almost all of it, so I would say my max depth is probably 7.5 inches or something like that. I don't know exactly because I never directly measured it, but it seems to be the most consistent. However, I have asked guys about the differences, mainly those that had sex with various races of women. Based on what many other men have told me, Black women's vaginal size doesn't seem to be any different to any other race of woman.

[Asker]

I wonder why men are supposedly so much different is size and yet women aren't? Unless thats mostly just myth which it seems to be.

[Tiffany_Taylor_Made]

I'm assuming because people are more selective and conscious about penis size compared to vagina size. For example, guys with big penises are often considered more desirable, while guys with small ones are more likely to either be rejected or too self-conscious to enter relationships at high rates. Yet, you also have girls that don't care about size. This results in women reproducing with guys of a variety of different sizes, resulting in their sons being born with various sizes. With vaginal size, you don't really know what you're getting until you're inside of it, and even then, no one cares to measure it. Thus, vagina size is more likely to be more straightforward.

[Asker]

Some problems with that theory but I suppose it could be a likely explanation. So how true are the penis size myths anyway? Statistically it seems like any difference isn't actually all that substantial but I dont know.

[Tiffany_Taylor_Made]

Yeah, that's just an assumption. It could be entirely false for all I know. I just assumed it because it made sense to me. By the way, when you say myths, are you referring to penis size and race, or penis size in general?

[Asker]

Penis size and race when i say myth. Not sure a myth for oenis size in general

[Tiffany_Taylor_Made]

I do think that there is a difference regarding penis size and race in general.

[Asker]

Well a minor difference yes. I believe statistically its about half an inch to an inch difference. I mean compare the largest sizes recorded between white men and black men and you have Nordic men and Congolese men. The difference on average between those 2 groups is.5 inches. So in your experience what has been the difference?

[Tiffany_Taylor_Made]

It's hard to tell exactly. In my experiences, Black men seem to be bigger, though I wouldn't say that the difference is anything too major. I would say that, in my experiences, Black guys are probably around 7 inches on average, with 6 and 8 inches being common. Nine inches is considered big in the Black community. White guys are around 6 inches on average, with 5 and 7 being common. White people seem to consider 8 inches big. The same seems to be true for Hispanics as Whites, mainly the non-Black ones. Asian guys seem to be the smallest, with 5 being the average, with 4 and 6 inches being common. An Asian guy with 7 inches is considered big.

[Asker]

Ok so about an inch difference. I could see that.

[Stellaluna84]

For me length isn’t that important (as long as it isn’t really small)... a thick cock is what really gives me pleasure.

[Asker]

What's a good thickness than?

[GiuliaDi]

it would be between 8 and 9 inch

[Asker]

Wow that big? I heard that size tends to be rarer

[GiuliaDi]

is that a problem

[Asker]

Well i guess a problem for any average sized guy who would be interested in you. Maybe a problem for you as you would likely have a hard time finding men in that range. So I guess it all depends how you look at it.

[Anonymous]

6-7 inches

[Asker]

Have you had bigger and not enjoy it? Or have you only had about that range or smaller?