What would you consider this if I didn’t give him permission?

[Anonymous]

I was making out with a guy. We kissed, did oral, touched each other, and we wanted to have sex. He didn’t have a condom, so he was like bend over let’s play a game. He put it in raw and humped for a little. Then he goes I don’t want to cum inside you. So we stopped then he goes damn I wish a store was open to get condoms. He goes it’s ok next time. He didn’t ask if he could put it in.

[Andres77]

It's being naive. On your part.
It's being a selfish asshole. On his part.
That's what I call it.
Obviously you can't trust him.
He wants credit for "controlling himself and not cumming inside" but that douche didn't control himself enough NOT to fuck you without permission.
If you continue to date him... you're going to get what you deserve.
Treat yourself better.
Good luck, kid.

[Asker]

I totally agree. The whole thing gets me angry. We did go drinking so it was not smart overall

[Andres77]

I hope there are no long term consequences.

[Andres77]

Good luck

[Asker]

no, I'm fully ok. thank god, lesson learned.

[OlderAndWiser]

Consent need not be explicitly verbal but can be implied from the circumstances and your conduct. If he says "bend over, let's play a game" and you pull down your panties and bend over, it was reasonable for him to infer that he had your permission toinsert himself in you.

[Sophia001]

Don't allow to drive without condom unless you need to get pregnant or std

[whereismyjohnny]

Use condoms!

[Klinklins]

That's good self control

[Twalli]

You didn't tell him to stop and you admitted that you wanted to have sex

[CubaPirate]

No permission means rape imao

[Anonymous]

He took advantage of you. You could have him charged with rape. On the other hand, if a guy asks you to bend over it's a pretty good indication that its to have intercourse. In hindsight you could have asked him why he wanted you to bend over.