What would you do if the hookup you had resulted in a pregnancy?

Question

I’d keep my baby and own up to what I did…

ohsheeT · Accepted Answer

Well if I'm going to have a hookup or if I'm going to have a one night stand with a person it's because I like her some part of her I like if that was the case I would ask her to please have the baby because if she did not want the baby I would take it and I would raise it because that's just who I am I really didn't have parents to speak of I mean I had a stepfather till I was 10 I always wanted to know who I was my mom she was in my life until I was 15 and I have 16 years old and I moved out but every feeling and emotion that I went through during my life I had to teach myself how to overcome and had to become the person I am today and I thank God that I went through all that I experienced all that because I wouldn't want to change anything for anything yes I want to keep the baby I would even marry the girl or at least be in her life so I can be in the child's life

Avicenna · Accepted Answer

I'd be pretty unhappy about it, but I 'd talk to her and see what she wanted to do. If she wanted to keep the baby, we'd talk about whether we would become a couple.

EmmaMary · Accepted Answer

I would definitely keep the baby and hope that the father would take some interest in perhaps co-parenting... If not, it would be off to court to get child support.

Of course this is all hypothetical, as I'm very happily married and have never, nor will ever do any hook-ups.

Apple1996 · Accepted Answer

I'd keep the baby. Maybe try to co-parent with the dad if he was willing. If not get child support from him.

purplepoppy · Answer

Just get an abortion

Sour-rose · Answer

Well... seeing I learned how horrifying it is for the body to prepare for the pregancy... i'd break laws just to rid of the "accident"

Emilyis · Answer

I wouldn't marry him but he dammed sure would make child support payments or go to jail.

slatyb · Answer

If you continue the pregnancy you won’t have to “own up”, it will be obvious.

Th3ft · Answer

Like wise! I would hate knowing that I may have a kid somewhere and never got to be apart of their life just because I was to concerned about commitment.

Agape93 · Answer

Been there. Abort it, no question, no qualms. Thankfully it's not a concern anymore.

SlothySlob · Answer

This thought hasn't even remotely crossed my mind, since I haven't even gotten close to getting some.

JessJJ · Answer

Have the baby.

Kabluie · Answer

My girlfriend has an IUD, she was like "if you get me pregnant, I'm getting an abortion, and you're getting snipped" lol. I said OK, fair compromise.

ZZed5 · Answer

Well, I'd make sure that's my child, ofcourse in a gentle way. If that was my child I'd take the responsibility.

AsaKyo · Answer

Wouldn't happen to me because I don't hook-up with people

Samantha_17 · Answer

I give birth to the baby.

TroyDT · Answer

I don't do hookups and am sterile, so not going to happen.

swettannie · Answer

i'll keep it

Mart10 · Answer

I would keep the baby too. Pay for its expenses and take care of it.

Fromdusktilldawn · Answer

That totally depends. If I were in my mid 30s, had a stable job and if I see that she is a match (personality, interests & character) maybe yea. Else it would be a total no