What would you do if this happened to you?

[Anonymous]

I was in my friend's house last week. He is my age and he has a sister who is 22. She lives with him.
Last week I was visiting my friend's house and he said that I could watch the television down stairs.
So I did.
But I had to go up stairs to the bathroom and on my way I passed his sisters bedroom. When I looked in she was standing up with her back to the door and she was fully naked. She didn't hear me as she was moaning very quietly. I move around the house way too quietly. Lol.
Anyway I looked in and I saw that she was pleasuring herself. She looked to be in a very high state of arousal as she was throwing her head back a bit.
I kept looking and then I went away right after she came.
Is it bad that I watched her?

[sawno]

I'd say very morally grey. It is a no victim no crime situation, she doesn't know, nothing bad happened from you seeing it but you did get something she may not have wanted you to see.

What we can rule out though is that it was a good thing, it isn't. Nothing good came from this as a general impact. You selfishly looked at a girl who would probably not want to be seen. If she did want to be seen then it would have been a good thing but still very impolite.

So how heavily you weigh this is up to you, and the lessons you learn from this is also up to you. Its up to you to develop yourself into the person you wish to be. Does he look at masturbating girls if she's having her private moment because it doesn't hurt her if she doesn't catch you? Or do you take the stance that either way its not a good thing to do something you know the other person involved would not want you to do.

Personally i side on the latter, i think its morally wrong to do something you know the other would not want you to do and you did so for selfish reasons. But at the same time i understand the temptation in the moment. If you feel guilty about it embrace the guilt and never do it again, and then forgive you for this one time you did it. If you have no shame in this and find it acceptable that is up to you, its your morals after all that count here and you have to be the judge over yourself in the end. If you can life with doing that on purpose next time it happens and you value seeing it more than you value her privacy that would be your call to make. But if not, then politely walk away next time.

[OlderAndWiser]

Dude! She knew you were in the house and nobody masturbates with the bedroom door open unless they WANT to be seen.

[Anonymous]

Sounds fine.

[Asker]

It's not bad that I watched so is it?

[Opinion Owner]

It wasn't premeditated, you just accidentally saw her and she left her door open. It would've been bad if she saw you, but she didn't. Just be thankful and cherish that memory for jerking off.

[Asker]

Yeah. I saw her by accident. I already masturbated twice to the memory of her.

[Asker]

I never realised how sexy women's backs are until I saw her naked body. Her ass was divine. When she came she trembled for ages. She is blonde.

[Asker]

I never realised how sexy women's backs are until I saw her naked body? Her ass is divine. When she came she trembled for ages.