What would you do if you caught your significant other having online affairs with people far away?

As the question says, if you were to possibly look at your partners phone and see that they exchange nudes and maybe role play with complete strangers who live thousands of miles away.. would you forgive them?

For extra context: they are not doing it for emotional love.. they are strictly just horny and this is what they enjoy rather than watching porn.

Thoughts?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • I do respect the privacy of my significant other and I never had the interest in looking trough their phones or pc. I mean personal space is personal space. Now I do expect the same from them yet this seems to be only valid for me lol.

    Still if you are in a relationship with someone and you do care about them. Then I don't see the point in doing those said stuff. Sure for some may be a way to let of steam or just to feed the inner beast.

    Yet I don't support those stuff. I may be old-fashioned but if I do care and love my soulmate that's it. There ain't no other woman for me out there as long as I care for said person. I may talk communicat or have a small chat but that's it.

    Because it's enough for me. Now for a person to do that and other stuff behind the back of their significant other! That means that what they get from that person ain't enough for them. Doesn't matter if it's miles away or near still the same.

    Others will say that this is harmless. That's not the case because it's in reality betrayal. Imagine for a second what the other person will think if he sees stuff like that. Just put yourself in his/hers shoes it's not nice is it?

    Yet younger generation is different then most of us so for them this ain't big deal. And I respect their opinion but I don't value it or support it. Because trust once broken will place the seed of doubt which in time will destroy slowly from the inside.

  • If I got to a point I needed to check their phone I think the relationship pretty much ends their as I wouldn't be able to trust her anymore if she was cheating then it would further show me why the relationship is ending

Most Helpful Girls

  • I dont care how far away they are, its still cheating. you're seeking constant emotional support from strangers and you're physically getting off to them. I’d breakup with him

  • Well, for one they would be my SO anymore. I wouldn't tolerate him exchanging nude photos of himself with strangers.

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • Leave them.

  • Buy them a plane tick with their money to whatever country the people they are talking to are from. Then tell them to pack their bags and go for a visit.

  • gone.

  • Help her look for new accommodation.

  • I wouldn't like it. They wouldn't be my problem anymore, though.

  • Leave them

  • End the relationship.

  • This is the type of thing that should be agreed upon before you do it.