What would you do if you caught your son jerking off?

[Iceseeyou25]

Let's say you found out your 13 year old son jerks off. Would you be disgusted? What would you do?

[Lov2PlezUgurl]

actually the Bible foretold this it says"in the endtimes every man's hand will be upon his genitals" so there's nothing you can do about it it is written it must needs to come true although the Bible says"it is better to cast thy seed into the belly of a whore than to cast it upon the ground" this is 2021 almost if everyone isn't masterbating especially now with this covid 19 shit then there's definitely something wrong with them male or female

[NamerOfStars]

If he hasn't noticed me, turn and leave, as silently as possible. If he has, pretend I didn't see it and quickly go. If he knows I'm there and know what he's doing, I'll just look him in the eye, say "Let this be a lesson in the importance of locking the door", and leave. Masturbation is normal and healthy, and at that age, I'd be more concerned if he wasn't doing it.

[ushagomez]

No I would not be disgusted. It is perfectly natural and normal for a boy, or girl, to enjoy masturbating at that age.

[Apple1996]

I'd turn around, walk away and act like I didn't see anything

[AustinMan]

Nothing. It's a perfectly normal thing for him to do.

[WindAtMyBack]

Nothing. He's doing the same thing that virtually all boys his age do. It's perfectly normal.

I would start knocking on his door long before he got old enough to discover masturbation. He has a right to privacy, and this is one of many reasons he should have that privacy.

[Mister_E_Alaska]

Have the talk about privacy and appropriate places to masterbate. He needs to close his door and you need to knock and wait for him to respond before you enter. Tell him what is appropriate he can ejaculate on/in unless you want everything to be sticky. Its natural and you have to be chill AF about the chat.
1. Boundaries
2 clean-up

[PhilEvans]

Pubescent boy does thing that ALL pubescent boys do.

Don't walk in on him in his room, knock AND call out first, and make sure the bathroom door privacy locks work.

If you're feeling disgusted about it, that's on you, not on him.

[Barbaric]

People saying they'd talk to him and tell him that it's normal are fucking weird. Duh, of course it's normal, he already knows. Leave him alone, he doesn't want or need to have that talk with you.

[nerdybutlazy]

At that point, I think I'd ask my boyfriend to have "the talk", and tell him its normal

[triff]

I'd talk him through what ever he was curious about like cars no but seriously about sex How he was feeling And making sure we all knocked before entering his room

[ChocoBrownieMonster]

You know there is a thing called knocking. People should knock and wait til they say come in. I wouldn't have this problem because I'm respectful of one's private space.

[slatyb]

Either tell him to close the door next time, or apologize for not knocking.

[TadCurious]

I would think "well that's perfectly normal" and respect his privacy.

[Agape93]

Shut the door. Don’t want to see it but I don’t give a shit

[Dargil]

Nothing whatsoever. It is part of natural sexual discovery.

[Gwenhwyfar]

Give him some privacy. Same goes for my daughter.

[Iceseeyou25]

I put this in the religious section... Why is it here?

[Gwenhwyfar]

Jerking off

[Alexandrubaschet08]

I will not care to much, i will just make some joke like "did you kill the snake my boy" :)) "did you >finish< your job" ":)) Lather ask him what did he finde what new on the buisnis.
I will just make fun of the situation, no punishmant, no anger. Only comedy.
If he had any question he will know i will answer to them.

[jmf909]

Nothing really have the talk about birds and bees tell him to be more careful about getting caught and leave him be

[Iceseeyou25]

And what if he said he thinks he likes a boy at school?

[jmf909]

Then your fucked would take another chat and explanation of what he was experiencing and get advice and information about that

[FatherJack]

That is normal for a teen boy , I would leave my now 17 year old be.

[ryancg]

I'd apologize to him and leave him be, the last thing you'd wanna do is try to talk about it and turn into this weird thing for him. Hell, I'd probably just give him some porn lol

[Old_Golden]

Learn to knock. It's going to happen, he's gonna do it no matter what.

[Opuse1530]

Why be disgusted?
It's natural & we all do it & if you don't, you should.

[OfDeath]

I'd make sure he had a box of tissues in his room.