What would you do if you found out your SO , was an exoctic dancer and had not mentioned this career choice to you?

[molonski2]

I have actually seen this happen - in a past life haha , I always wondered how you could get away with it , but when they explain the detail they went into , its very believable , now these were all females , but I'm certain some guys do it also , and let me tell you , the " hens night " attendees are far worse than the men ( honestly ) , no thoughts whatsoever for the rules.

Now , this is a surprise out of left field , try and imagine , how would you deal with it? its fully nude club , and although no penetration , its dam full on sensual.

[Dargil]

It would be a topic of conversation. A guy I know (former Marine) married SE Asian girl he met in Japan, Even today, she has an escort mind set. She is very confident around men. She is not a slut now but she seems to have been around. It is not really rare for military men to marry pleasure girls.

[TheSpaceGnome]

How would I not know long before they were my SO? 🤔 Either way, thats cheating, I'd dump her, or rather I'd not be with her to begin with.

[molonski2]

Harsh but fair.. If you read my entire question , I can assure you there are more partners than you may think that dont know , some tell , some tell at a certain point , some keep it all as a secret life , I mean what kind of boyfriend would be rapt about it?

[TheSpaceGnome]

Its impossible to do that to me, she would not be able to live a secret life or get in my pants without me knowing eveything about her first, but if she one day started doing that, I'd know, and I'd dump her. I only accept a relationship offer if she has been my best friend for years. The type of woman I like is also clingy and an open book, and is also germ averse enough to think that job is digusting, she'd be around me pretty much 24/7 and be working with me from home on our business that we co-head, she'd not only have no desire to live a secret double life, but she'd also have no time to do so.

[Nikki1989]

Yeah, I can't see my hubby shaking his junk.

[molonski2]

Maybe not , but lets assume he has been , for the questions sake.

[Nikki1989]

I would be very shocked.

[dannybear]

@nikki1989 Why and how so? I have np shaking my junk?

[inhua]

rethink and re-evaluate the vetting process

[molonski2]

Some people can really hide stuff pretty well , one example , a female lawyer , would fly from Melb to Sydney to work 7 nights , I knew her well , she told her husband she was " In Melbourne on business " which was true , just didn't say what business.

[inhua]

it's the Halo Effect. too many men get blinded by their wife/girlfriend's physical attractiveness to look past their flaws and lies

[Grovermint]

Dumped.

[Pete671]

I'd love it, I'd go and watch her in disguise!

[KrakenAttackin]

You mean she was a STRIPPER.

[molonski2]

Exoctic dancer , there is a big difference. Strippers only just strip to a crowd.

[Mcmarvelous]

Tip her

[jimmy2]

I would give her a clean slate then it's up to her on her mistakes

[molonski2]

But in the example , its not a mistake , she is just not telling you , living a double life if you like..

[Anonymous]

Nothing if she is always faithful to me

[Anonymous]

I would be excited, and I'd go to the club and watch her show.

[molonski2]

You would not be concerned that you were not informed? Remember , this is right out of left field. Plus , we dont allow partners into the club , and see is going one on one , full on , bringing virtually every one on one to near , climax. You are okey with that?

[Anonymous]

So she gets paid, no STDs or pregnancy risks, enjoys it and still comes back to me

Why would I care, let the simps be simps

[molonski2]

None of that would be an issue , the point was that you were not told.

[molonski2]

Dont think its anything to do with SIMPS , its the exact utter opposite.. You would not be concerned that you were not informed? Remember , this is right out of left field. Plus , we dont allow partners into the club , and see is going one on one , full on , bringing virtually every one on one to near , climax. You are okey with that?

[Opinion Owner]

Nah, she's taking a job off of my to-do list