Himm.. A hypo question. Strictly a hypo question.
I believe that and I guess, you and he/she are two adults and mature people.
This can be. That's no harm.
This shouldn't bother you.
It's just a thought. Abstract thought. Completely abstract.
Finally, you're masturbating. And that makes you feel good.
You're not having sex with him/her in real life.
Do you know? Maybe she's also masturbating.. maybe she's also wet. You don't know.
And if you're two good friends, it means you two understand each other very very well.
As adults and mature two people, you must know that friendship will not end so easily.
Don't be afraid. You don't need for to be afraid. I think your friend won't leave you.
I think your friend won't leave you like Penelope, Natalie and your in real life friends.
Because that's not good for your friend too.
If I had self aware, outspoken and honest friend like you, I would never leave her. Never. Don't worry😊
If one or both of you are in relationships with other people then you both need to hit the nearest exit immediately. Dont do that to your partner. If you're both single and you know theyre no good deep down, then you should still exit or at least let eachother know “things won't go further after this but im totally mastsurbating to you tonight”. I’ve been in that situation a few times this week 😂
Have fun girl 😏
Dang in this week itself! That itself is a turn on! 😛😋😁
im tryna be better 😂
Who's to say getting turned on in any particular situation is wrong? I don't think anybody can make a right or wrong judgment about that. People get turned on in a lot of situations that society would deem inappropriate. But we're not exactly in control of what turns us on and what doesn't. Homosexuals find people of their own gender turn on. Some people get turned on by sheep. Some people get turned on by their mom. Oedipus Rex. Shit... It's well-documented that many people get turned on in stressful situations. Is it really wrong to want to fuck when you only have minutes left to live?
Some people are turned on right now reading this because I am such a sexy guy! There's no way that could be wrong. :-)
Woohoo! I got a like. I'm bringing sexy back!
Does she buck wildly when you lick her? 😏
Are you kidding? Fuck yeah she does! That's exactly why they call me Buck Wild. Sometimes I like to sit under the desk while she studies...
I think you’re asking this because of a personal situation with yourself lol.
Anyways, I wouldn’t even have a platonic friendship with a woman in the first place, so if she or I had a partner, or both, then I’d just find a way out of the conversation or interaction. I wouldn’t do anything to sabotage my or her relationship. So, if I’m getting turned on from talking to another woman and she’s getting turned on from talking to me and we both have partners, that’s normal and human, perfectly fine. The issue comes with the specific actions we take, not the involuntary, human, or natural reactions we experience.
I agree
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ignore it.
Cool
That was a situation I had to deal with repeatedly when I was getting to know this guy who was courting me when we were both in college. After several dates/meetings with him, I couldn't help myself any longer. I rushed back to my college apartment because had to masturbate with him in mind.
(He's my husband now.) :)
I’ve done the same thing once or twice
K this has happened to everyone, I'm sure. You don't stop being attracted to other people regardless of relationship status. What matters is you recognize those feelings are purely a natural, sexual response and isn't as valuable as your relationship, you're fine. Be horny.
Totally agree How’s journalism these days?
I ignore it, but I have been guilty of B before. Haven’t done that in a long time though.
Me too!!! On both counts lol.
I would reevaluate my current relationships, with either them or my partner, depending on the circumstances.
If I was in a relationship, I would consider leaving my partner.
If I'm not in a relationship, I would ask them if they reciprocate my interest (whether they are single or not) and if they don't, I would cut them off.
Either way, I would come up with a solution that would prevent the same thing happening again.
Looking back to it, I should have gone with either B or C.
B worked for me the last time this happened to me
If I ever get so attracted to another woman again, I'll go with B for sure. I saw her again at social event last week. We didn't talk or interact, but she nodded and smiled at me that way.
B is defo a good option
I'd go into another room or distract myself with something else, maybe even going antisocial on my phone
I understand
But i agree it is a tough place to be
This happened to me with a friend one summer. We met on a dating website and I took her out to dinner, we connected that night over good conversation. However she let me know the next day she decided to enter into a committed relationship with another guy. Then 3 days later reached out to begin a friendship because she said I was a good listener. I agreed knowing she had a boyfriend. Over the next 3 months we probably hung out ~20 times and unknown to me she started to develop romantic feelings. Answering your question I felt sexual attraction and chemistry many times but due to my moral code I wasn’t going to initiate because she had a boyfriend.
I totally get it
Ha ha at the time I had no clue
Make a quick exit before it becomes obvious
Cool 😊
I try to stay cool and pray they don't realize it.
Awesome 😊
I do a Jedi Mind Trick on myself and multitask. I keep talking to them and simultaneously
think about other things to distract
I always feel turn on when i'm talking about or thinking about my girlfriend. I try and calm down
I’m glad you feel so strongly about her
She means the world to mee
Never been an issue for me and probly won't be but if it did i would wait do nothing see how I feel then act after waiting
Makes sense
Suppress it.
its LUST not love.
Happens - sometimes frequently - will think about them when masturbating... most often lately it involves a young woman (late 20's) who I work with. I think she is very sexy cute and she wears these absolutely awesome dresses at work and she is just a really super person overall. If I was 20 years younger, not married and didn't work with her... maybe I'd ask her out but... none of those are reality lol so she is in my edging playtime lineup :)
@WhiteShoulder thanks for the like. Hope you had a nice weekend :)
I did. Thanks for asking 😊.
Cool :)
I don't let go a chance to flirt..😁
How involved are you
I would dip out if it one of us were in a relationship if we were good friends I wouldn't be afraid of ruining our friendship I would be thinking we're already friends that's half the battle the rest would come easy
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