What would you do if your boyfriend had nudes of girls he slept with in the past in his phone like a whole collection?

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He says it's in the past lol
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  • To preserve the memories for posterity.
    Having photos doesn't mean he is in touch with them or prefers them over you.

    He shouldn't have to delete his past now that he's with you.

    I've been married now for over 26 years, but I have photos (not nudes) of a couple of former girlfriends (I wish I had photos of them all) just so I can remember them when they were young and beautiful. I've shown some of them to my wife. She doesn't care.

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  • That is some bullshit, I heard some women keep their old sex tapes and I find that completely mindblowing, people that do that should stay single, cause deep down they aren't letting go to their past, if they aren't willing to do so then they shouldn't expect you to either, your boyfriend is saying it's in the past but he's still holding on to that past symbolically and visually, find yourself a dude that would respect you enough to actually leave his past in the past.

Most Helpful Girls

  • Tell him that we could make money if he wrote a tell-it-all book and used them for illustrations.

  • How many is a collection because that's kind of creepy.

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • Check you are in first place?

    • Huh?

    • What do you mean

  • Well that’s understandable like they are fap material and since he has slept with them it adds more excitement than normal pics so it makes them more pleasurable to fap to!

  • Boyfriend? I would dump him.

  • Would tell him to remove them

  • Dump him. A collection? That’s gross and creepy.

  • Boys will be boys I guess.

  • What a stud man.

  • Compromise. Let him back them up to safe storage and then delete them from his phone.

  • If it was in the past, he would have removed them.

  • Judging by this and your other questions, it seems like he is up to something behind you back that he doesn't want you to know about. I suggest keeping a very close eye on him.

  • When in a relationship, I always delete all previous photos and videos of girls I've had on my phone. It's the only respectful thing to do. Don't let anyone tell you otherwise. Guys would definitely get angry if you kept nudes of previous dudes you've been with on your phone.

  • Um, I totally get it, but as a partner, I would find it, disturbing.

  • It might be his way of covering his ass just incase one of these women retroactively decides to revoke consent.

    • Hahaha

  • He's asking to get dumped.

  • Every guy has ex nudes / vids.

  • Does it offend you and make you sad?

    • Nah not really

    • I doubt those girls would want to be in his photo colleague of nudes, it's gross so nah makes me angry on the girls behalfs

    • Do you want him to delete them or you gonna let him keep them if he doesn’t show you?

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  • we all need our memories and a record of our life

  • He should delete them or it's a deal breaker.

  • As long as he is not looking at them and thinking of them. Are you nudes in there too?

  • Ehh, probably not unusual unfort. This day and age were a social media people and those nudes might have significance for him. You have the right to so him to delete them, as well as his former gfs, and he has the right to say no.

    If it’s too much of an impasse it may lead to break up.

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