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Sexual Health What would you do if your religious parent may lie to your future wife or husband about your virginity when you’re not a virgin?
Paolaa988 Explorer
My dad tells me he wants them to know I’m saving myself for marriage but I did NOT since I had sex at my age 22 and I was telling him how people give consent but he mentions it should only be under the eyes of god but I worry he will try to lie to the guy I actually marry one day that I’m a virgin and that’s a big deal because I’ve had sex and still plan to have sex before marriage. How should I go about this? Why does he try to make it his business😞
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What Girls & Guys Said
7 28Nobody would marry a non virgin even if they say they would, if they said it then know it was a lie.
Wait I'm confused you told your parents you lost your virginity and now they want to lie and say you didn't
No he brought it up in a conversation when I mentioned a girl had consensual sex and that means she gives her okay because it was on a show and he was like yeah but you wait for marriage under the eyes of god and in my head I’m like nope I didn’t do that but it’s like he’s trying to control me
Damn why is he so closed minded
I would do nothing. Try to act very nervous and like you fear that it hurts and Nobody ever will find out
If parents bluff and hide, result is very terrible especially in Arabs and Muslim families, Divorce with explitation
I’m Mexican and so is he
@paolaa988 I don't know about yiur culture
Just be honest with your boyfriends about your sex life.
tell you dad, how many dick already fucked you!
why he care or tell them you are virgin? he is going to spread your pussy and show them? your dad sounds big asshole!
sex is beautiful, you should live life is yours and not theirs
Why is your father involved in your sexual life? That's creepy.
Are you a muslim?
Tell your boyfriend that your father is in denial.
Well, as someone who is not religious, I would probably laugh it off, keep living my life, be honest with my boyfriend and tell my boyfriend to just play along to make my father happy. It's not worth an argument over, but it's also not something I'd want to hide from my future husband.