If they already decided to do that on purpose than that really says right there that they don't love me, they must not really care about the marriage, and most importantly they already broke their vows already and that's considered as sexual neglect. All the more reason why you want to have these discussions way before you and decide to get involved with a person or get married. Because now you don't want to get married to a person who are just going to make matters even more difficult for you and it's bad enough marriage is already hard enough.
Would you wait for them to accept it?
There is no waiting anyting. When you are married you are married. So they make the decision when they want to start acting like a spouse. I have been a virgin all my life. So hypothetically speaking, if I ever got fat, which would be nearly impossible, they can choose sexual frustration or talk it out like an actual adult.
Would you cheat on them?
Never! But of they do, that's it. Divorce right off the bat.
Would you leave them?
No. That would make me a hypocrite. Unless they choose to abused me, it is bad enough that it can be considered as sexual neglect which it is. In a way abuse as well, I'm not leaving a marriage that I vowed to stay in. That's why I tell people all the time, don't get married if you are not prepared to get married to stay married. You don't get married just to divorce. Marriage is not about what you like. It's about what you got to do in order to survive and to meet your obligations to the person you are married to, and love that person. Honor God with your marriage.
Would you lose weight?
I will try to lose weight for myself. Unless I'm already healthy, I'm not going to go to extremes just because I'm involved with a person who already act like that they don't give a damn about me. I lose weight because I need to be healthy. But I would never allow myself to get that far anyway. I would not treat my spouse that way. Why should I be mistreated?
Would you pretend to try and lose weight?
Don't pretend. You only just going to hurt yourself.
Would you try to make them fat too?
Hell No! That is ridiculous and vindictive and you might as well call it a crime.
But what if they were just repulsed by your extreme obesity caused by laziness and indulgence in junk food? Would you really expect someone to have sex with you no matter what? Don’t you want your spouse to actually want to have sex with you instead of doing it out of obligation?
Then they don't love me. Why marry me if I'm just going to be used and abused? They don't have to have sex if they don't want. Thats abusive. But they already chose to abuse me. If I'm so bad, then divorce me. But never ever again what I ever marry. As I said there's no way I can be extremely obese anyway because I already struggle with gaining weight. Now when I choose to get married I get mad because I love a person. Their looks or anything have nothing to do with love. I love them for their soul, I love him for everything they who they are, that's love. Love is not sex. Love is not selfish. Love is not any of these worldly things. It's not love. I would not again, I would not treat my husband that way even if they were a beast. But I was focused on helping them to lose weight to be healthy. Sex would not even be on my mind. But that their health is the most important part. I would not even have junk food. I don't even be lazy in the first place. Extreme obesity has to do with more than that. It's something that psychological and more likely genetic. Because you can cut up laziness and the junk food but you will still have those problems. So if they want to leave you solely because of that, remember they never loved you at all but want benefits.
What you have to remember is that marriage is an obligation. Once you make a decision to get married, you are obligated to the Bal that you said. That's why on your wedding day you have those vows. Do you honestly think that it's just there for show? Then you're wasting other people's time and you're wasting your time getting married. These days people will use you for anything they don't give a damn about you. You can die tomorrow and life will still go on. There's a good reason why I'm celibate and I never bothered. Because there's not a lot of guys even worth the effort, and I'm not going to put myself through that stress. Will you just explain is another reason why I would never bother getting married. People don't know what love is today.
I don’t think I’d be comfortable enough in my own body to have sex if I was fat
I've always felt that we each have a responsibility to take care of ourselves such as keeping our weight under control. I was married to morbidly obese for 27 years so if my lady got fat, it would be a bad situation.
Would lose weight, is there any better motivation for a man to lose weight than this? :)
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!I'd never let myself get that fat in the first place, and I can never understand those who do.
I think she should want to keep herself trim and fit.
if she didn't, id probably leave.
I'd cheat on her. If she's going to be that petty, I wouldn't even feel bad about it.
Why wouldn’t you want to be attractive for the woman you claim to love?
It's not that I wouldn't, but I wouldn't have that standard for her. People gain weight, especially after 30. I wouldn't treat her differently if she gained weight and she shouldn't me either.
I’m not talking about a 10 lbs. I’m taking like 100lbs overweight. You know... like obese. That’s not age. That’s lifestyle.
Dont get fat
Get someone to fuck me infront of him
Why wouldn’t you want to be attractive for the man you claim to love?
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