What would you do if your wife or girlfriend did this?

If your partner kept it a secret from you that your 15 or 16 year old daughter was having sex with her friend and you only found out like 5 years later, what would you do?

Age of consent would be 15 so you police wouldn't care.
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  • They are teens there gonna explore nothing wrong with that we all have been there at a young age

  • I would be really upset and think that they are not in their right mind doing that

  • We are sexual beings from a very early age. Children are known to masturbate in the womb, and as they get older they find other ways to satisfy that primal urge. I put my daughters on the pill at age 12. Not because I wanted them to have sex, I knew they would eventually and soon, but because I didn't want them to have an unwanted baby. I was open and frank with them about their sexuality so, if one of them was having sex with someone her own age, as I was sure they probably would, (I did earlier than that), she has a modicum of protection. We can't live in Victorian times. Even those who did live then weren't celibate.

    • Uh, no. Children are curious about their bodies from an early age. True sexual awakening usually doesn't occur until age 11. If I ever have daughters, I'll be frank with them about what's happening to them; and why the Bible is right after all. I'll let them know the pitfalls of hedonistic pursuit. Including the potentials for unforeseen consequence that are never discussed by immorality advocates. Just as I'd let them know why I disapprove of belly rings. Everything would have a reason. I'd never settle for "because I said so." I realize in this day and age, that argument doesn't work.

  • I wouldn't care. It has been 5 years. There is nothing to do. She is my daughter. I cannot deny her. And i would forgive my wife if she didn't have sex but that

  • Guess i say you betrayed me how can i be with you

  • 15 years old is gross but was the daughter hurt? No?

    Then idgaf tbf.

  • Well first off, my daughter will not have sex with anyone till she is out of my care as a parent in terms of my household. If she does and she gets pregnant, she will get her ass whoop and she will have that child as punishment for being so dumb. 3rd I will divorce that wife and i will get a judge on this. Because one your endangering out daughter life and future. 2 your also going behind my back on a decision that would destroy this family. 3 what is she gonna do if she gets pregnant and can't go to school, cause i will tell you right now if she's not going to school because of a kid then she's going to work because of that kid

  • I'd talk to my daughter and check that she was doing so of her own free will, no judgements or recriminations, whether the friend was male or female,,,

  • This question is very difficult to answer. On one hand you have a spouse/girlfriend who has lied to you for over 5 years. Then on the other hand you have a husband/boyfriend's daughter who looks to you for loyalty, who trusts you.


    However difficult the situation might be, the responsibility still lies on the girlfriend/wife to do the mature thing and inform her SO of the underaged daughters behavior.

    Divorce, breaking up are options. I don't think it can be that simple. Im sorry I can't offer more advice on this subject.

  • I'm sure the friend of probably freaked out a little bit and just kind of question why I don't see nothing wrong with it as long as the friends not with anybody

  • Well, it's my child too so I would like to know. Besides, it's not like I'm going to harm my own daughter, belittle her or anything like that.

  • I would feel hurt that with such a age 😕 but now she's older then that's now her choices to make.

  • Two teens having sex , exploring their sexuality... nothing wrong with that

    • The man was over 30. Your wife has 16 year old friends?

    • Ah then that is a little disconcerting

    • I think it's more than a little

  • I’d feel i failed being a father , why they wouldn’t trust me with this information earlier?

  • I’d be upset with my spouse

    • Why..

    • Because she lied to me for 5 years

  • Nothing.
    since it’s been 5 years, she has been safe and not pregnant.

  • somethings are better handled between mother and daughter... I chose my wife because I love and trust her, besides I might have freaked out...

  • Past is the past. Move on. Focus on the future. Period.

    • Okay

  • Well it's difficult situation but I am going to say it's best to do what is right. And don't make a mistake

  • As a father and husband the wife should have told him.

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