Stealthing is when a guy promises to use a condom but doesn't put it on or removes it.
Obviously your wife shouldn't have agreed to have sex with another man even with a condom, but infidelity is a much smaller crime than rape. She doesn't want to talk about the infidelity because it triggers her PTSD.
Until such time as lying about being on birth control is considered rape, removing a condom isn't either. Nor would it be on the same level as the stereotypical "jump out of the darkness and rip off your clothes" style of rape; still heinous, but hardly the same thing.
And since "having someone lie to you about birth control" is simple dishonesty, as opposed to "openly and freely violating your given word of loyalty", I dispute vehemently that it's "a much smaller crime". You don't get to claim PTSD to excuse the bad behavior of the person with whom you engaged in YOUR bad behavior.
The law says it is rape, I didn't ask whether you agree with it or not, for the purpose of this question it is rape.
Your situation is using it as a source of trauma and consequent excuse for cheating; you sure as hell asked whether I agree with it.
Divorce is unwise for men. Regardless what she does you’ll pay in the end.
I wouldn’t marry for this reason. Divorce for men isn’t an option. Even with a cheating wife your still obligated to pay alimony in most places and losing my children over her stupidity? Na Ide stay married but that love and affection just became nothing. She’s company and a sex toy after that.
Does that sound bad? You do realized you fucking cheated on me right? If your REALLY sorry you’ll make up for it. I doubt I’ll ever forgive you and I KNOW I’ll never trust you again but at least we don’t have to change our whole life.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!She cheated. I'm divorcing her. Rape is not ok. But the fact that she cheated means... I'm not supporting her through shit! So it's wrong for any guy to do that. But... she shouldn't have been in that situation. This is maybe the one instance where victim blaming is fine. She shouldn't have been having sex in the first place. She shouldn't have been there. This couldn't' have happened if she wasn't cheating. Fuck her feelings in this case.
Support her.
Adultery was traditionally punished by death, so divorce, the ho can go to hell for all I care.
Traditionally men had a life expectancy of 25 because many died in war. We have progressed as a society.
More was dying because of diseases, and hos are spreading diseases, hos are dirty.
en.wikipedia.org/.../Life_expectancy
"Raped" by stealthing in other words she had sex with another man that wasn't me caught an std or got pregnant and is claiming to be a victim.
I don't put up with cheating. Divorce. As far as rape goes... I'm not saying it was okay but in this situation it wouldn't have happened if she hadn't been cheating. I would do nothing about it. She can take up the rape allegations with the police.
Who give a shit what she wants or how she feels. A cheater is a cheater.
This form of rape does not exist, at least in the UK and never should. Aside from that divorce her, she still cheated.
The getting pregnant isn’t the worst part - it’s the cheating part that’s the worst. He’s probably gonna be mad at the other guy regardless of pulling off the condom. But, if the husband stays with the unfaithful wife, the stealther still needs to pay child support.
She shouldn't have cheated. She got what she deserved.
I would divorce that hoe
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