What would you prefer a Dominant partner or a Submissive one?

Question

What kinda partner do you prefer or already have, Also "switch" isn't an option in this question.

meetkitty123 · Accepted Answer

Neither! I do not do the "dominant" or "submissive" thing with sex. I might roll play such a thing for fun but its not serious.
Now as a life partner I need a man who is balanced even though I'm very dominant in nature. I naturally lead. I will never yield to a man who attempt to dominate me. However I will not accept a man who drags behind me. I need a man who will keep up with me but not surpass me. I need a man who will stroll beside me. If I tired I need him beside me to place a hand at my back and keep me upright and moving forward. I need a man who can think and do for himself but not undermines me either. I need a beautifully balanced sexually pleasing gentleman.

Nimphfromtx · Accepted Answer

Oh I definitely like to be used like the slut that i know I am. Not really in a Slave and master way through. slave and Master really isn’t my thing. BDSM is fun in the moment But it’s not a “lifestyle” for me. I’m a free spirit.

razelove · Accepted Answer

Sub, though most nights of the week my sex is fairly vanilla, when it's not I like being the one doing the choking, spanking/slapping, tying, and plowing her face into the bed, while trapping those hips under me.

Is hair pulling more vanilla or dom? I feel like it's pretty vanilla, same with squeezing someone tight or scratching their back. My partner now is sub, and most of them have been. I have tried being on the other side and only had one female dom that knew what she was doing. The rest were more awkward than sex as a teenager.

ChrisMaster69 · Accepted Answer

Prefer submissive, have dated Switches before, even dated a Domme which was just fucking hysterical for both of us, as we knew it would be crazy and it was.

but if going for a BDSM partner it’s a submissive, it’s amazing being asked to collar her and she is ready.

Aeon_Norell · Answer

I'm somewhere on the dominant side of the spectrum, but I identify as a primal hunter rather than a Dom. I prefer other dominants/hunters as partners, so we can have some sexually charged hunting and fighting.

Ez-Bri-Z · Answer

I'd prefer a dominant partner.

AmandaYVR · Answer

Neither. These are totally dumb.

jaybee281 · Answer

Every woman I've been with has been submissive - and the way I am with them is pretty dominant - But honestly I wish I could have a relationship where a woman enjoys being a dom at least half the time - so yea imma go with dom..

ohshee · Answer

Innocent and submissive

PhilEvans · Answer

I'm in a long-term relationship with a Dominant female partner

Leavesbound · Answer

I love a dominant partner if we have compatible interests.

pierre7i · Answer

I prefer co-equal, if that makes sense.. I like a girl to join in with, during foreplay and in follow-on PIV sexual lovemaking

slatyb · Answer

Submissive, or kinky dominant for sex but not all the time.

wankiam · Answer

i usually am the dom with her being my sub in a dd/lg type thing but i do like to switch sometimes with the girl humiliating me over my porn addiction and chronic masturbation