What would you say is the biggest difference between porn sex versus actual sex?

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What would you say is the biggest difference between porn sex versus actual sex?

Screenwriter · Accepted Answer

Porn sex is acting and fake; and it's heightened to the ridiculous, in most instances-- women screaming all the time, men with gigantic penises, people with no pubic hair, and perfect makeup, bodies.

Also, porn sex has little to do with the interconnectedness of the people involved. It is sex for sex's sake. People who don't know each other come together and have earth-shattering sex. This doesn't happen in real life.

Usually people get to know each other and become able to be vulnerable and feel safe with each other before sex becomes great.

And for the most part, porn sex is some GUY's fantasy. Has little to do with what women want in a sexual relationship with a man. Also, has a lot of kinks in it, whereas, most folks like meat and potatoes sex with maybe a little whipped cream on top. Not bizarre positions, swings, whips and chains.

It's SOME guy's fantasy. Not any guy I've ever known. Thanks goodness.

laurieluvsit · Accepted Answer

I wrote an entire post about that.

Not much to me but most others say the opposite

The big difference is Drugs. Most of the Porn Star guys have their penis injected with a Viagra like substance to keep it hard for hours.

The other difference is the obvious fake screaming some of the female Porn Stars do, I mean I can do better than most of them... but then my screams aren't fake either... lol

Lliam · Accepted Answer

Porn is about showing cock and pussy.
The actors are prostitutes who just perform for the camera. They're like strippers who go through the motions doing things that certain types of people find sexy, but they are just performing a routine for money.

With real sex, people take time to get each other aroused by kissing and stimulating erogenous zones on each other's bodies. There is passion. They care about each other's pleasure.
During sex, real people don't position themselves to get camera angles of penetration. They position themselves and move spontaneously for maximum sensuality and pleasure.

And I never understood the eroticism of jacking off on a woman's face or body. Guys who watch porn think that's hot. But for me it would be anticlimactic to cum anywhere other than deep inside her or in her mouth with her lips closed around me.

Astarlessnightsky · Accepted Answer

The camera man or the entire film crew being present and watching.

And also these people yelling at you when something needs to be shot again or you should do this or that differently because the camera angle is wrong.

Also the positions are chosen not for your pleasure but for the viewers pleasure.

caring__1 · Answer

Porn can't provide mutual emotional connection that might lead to a deeper experience.

Hulk_kitty · Answer

Porn sex is acting with no emotions. real sex is love with emotions between two people who love each other, and really want to pleasure each other.

katiesmuff · Answer

All the yelling and screaming for starters. Then some of the positions they use and all the facials. Almost all real sex finishes inside the woman.

ShadowYamihiro · Answer

Difference is porn is way to overrated and lacks the feelings you have when you are with someone. You see no proper foreplay, no feelings, no respect either.

MiddleAgedClimbee · Answer

Mental and physical connection occurs in true relationships. Pornography simply pays individuals to make scenes.

ArrowheadSW · Answer

Most women don't like the "roughness" depicted in a lot of porn. Nor do they like to be choked with a guy's cock. Generally speaking. And most porn doesn't show enough of the romance leading up to sex. That is the funnest part anyway!

summiter · Answer

Porn sex is really acting... real sex involves real orgasms and sharing the experience together. What have your boyfriends said about it?

Apple1996 · Answer

Porn never shows good foreplay. Like no kissing and slow touching to build up to the moment of sex. It's all very rushed to the sex part with no romance

OfMiceandMen · Answer

Real emotion and tender moments during actual sex.

DryGermanGuy · Answer

Ten other people in the room with cameras, megaphone and kitchen roll! :-o

modeve · Answer

One is visual, other is actual.

Skull_Anon · Answer

The former is filmed and the later usually isn't 💀

jshm2 · Answer

The length, the feeling and the comfort.

LiamSawyer · Answer

The reality of it and giving you a climax.

AviatorTom · Answer

Physically, there is no difference. The difference is in the presentation. In porn, the participants are paying to the camera, to turn the viewer on; notice how he holds her hair out of the way during the BJ; and how he turns sideways during penetration so the viewer can see everything. In actual sex, there is no camera, and the participants play to each other, turning each other on.