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What would you say to this?

So say that you had sex with a girl last night and then the next day she asks you if you are now planning on disappearing so that she can be prepared. What would you say and would you be honest?
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  • I would be honest, but I would be hurt by that question. I don't do hit and run sex with a woman and it would upset me to know that she thinks I would. It would also make me wonder why she had sex with me if she thought it was a one time thing and that would be a negative in my mind also.

    It wouldn't necessarily be a relationship-ending question, but it would certainly be a relationship-damaging question. I would think that it shows she doesn't trust me and since trust is very important in a relationship, that would really concern me.

    Has this guy done anything to make you not trust that he's going to stick around? Or are you putting a bad experience from the past on him even though he's done nothing to deserve it?

    I personally do not think you should ask that question if you have any thoughts of this potentially being a long term relationship.

    • He hasn't necessarily done anything for me not to trust him but I haven't heard from him since had sex yesterday.

    • If it were me, I would certainly have made contact the next day, probably in the morning. I have no idea what his schedule is though. Maybe he was busy with work or something else all day. Hopefully you will hear from him later today or tomorrow. If you haven't heard by late tomorrow, I certainly think it's reasonable for you to contact him to ask how he's doing or something. Did he say anything at the end of your time together yesterday about getting together again?

    • How long have you known this guy? How many dates have you been on? Has he shown interest in you as a person and about your life and your goals and dreams?

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  • To be honest, I'd probably saw yes, just because she's putting her major insecurities on open display. Do NOT do that. Wait for him to reach out. If he doesn't, it means you were fooled into a bad choice. You're clearly way, way over invested in this and only can level things if he pursues. I hope this My Take helps.

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    • So it's the insecurity thata a turn off not necessarily the fact that you had sex?

    • Correct. No man wants a desperate woman for a lover. We want a confident woman that makes us feel good because she took an interest in us.

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  • My answer would be a definite "yes, I'll be gone. Wish you happiness in life."

    Sorry to be so crude because I can never accept a girl so low in self-esteem.

    Bare minimal, even if it were sex on the first date, I would be glad if she carries herself with dignity, and self-respect.

    Asking a question as you wrote only show her desperation, her lack of self-confidence, and uncertainty in managing her life. These are top turn offs to me.

    Sorry for being blunt. If she were you, I apologise.

  • Id be coming back for more great sex

    • Well the sex was great

    • He should want more then

  • I will ask her "Do you want me to disapear?"
    Personal if i do it whit a girl it meen i like her and i want to be whit her.

  • H O N E S T

    • So you would disappear?

    • I am 17 and single and haven't been in relationship... I would have sex with her :) I would never leave her bc we are now more strongly bonded... n care her more...🙂🙂

  • Are you the girl?

    • Yeah

    • I would try to be truthful to her. Did you avoid asking about this beforehand because you didn't want to jeopardize the hookup?

  • We would already be dating, so I wouldn't disappear at that point.

  • Yeah I’d be honest.

    • Would you disappear?

    • No, she would have to do something crazy to make me want to leave

  • Used

    • What?

  • Well I hopefully wouldn't be in that situation because I'd like to make it into a relationship that can hopefully last a while.

    • But if you were

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