What would you say were the key things to remember when giving a bj?

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AmandaYVR · Accepted Answer

You want to be the one doing the bjs to other guys, right?

The other guy should never be in control. It's your party, you do what you want. He can make suggestions, but you are not his slave, you're in charge.

I presume you're inexperienced and you're not talking about one person, over a long period of time, which is a bit different.

Don't do like they do in a lot of porn. It should be slower, methodical, and incremental. Just under the tip is the most sensitive, so don't start with that, that comes later.
To begin, you could do one of two methods - one long, wet, slow lick from the base (whether that's the penis, the scrotum, or the taint - you choose), all the way up to the tip. Or, little light kisses on the shaft, and anywhere and everywhere. Just lips, no wetness at first. Do that for a bit. Drive him crazy with anticipation. Desire is key. And you don't need to rush it. It will build to a stronger intensity, the more self-control you exhibit. Again, methodical. Anyway, you get the idea. The rest of the basics are keep it wet, use your hands, be present and focused, and keep them guessing. And less is more, up to a point, then go for a big finish, really amping it up only near the end. (Unless he does it a lot himself and he's desensitized to you, but that usually isn't such a problem because he/they will know it's a different person involved, and it's a blowjob, which is much better than a handjob alone.)

RoseareRed · Accepted Answer

Make sure it is wet enough to avoid friction when switching to your hand from your mouth. Avoid teeth getting involved. Add some variety, deep throat, suck the head/balls, lick from the balls to the top, etc. I mean just have fun! BJs are fun especially when you can tell he's enjoying it!