Whats a high body count? And does it matter?

So I met this guy I really like but I'm afraid he won't want to be with me because I have 6 bodies. I lost my virginity when I was 18 and I had a lot of short relationships in between.
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  • It depends on who you ask. Different guys have different tolerances for what kind of past they are willing to accept in a partner. Generally, the guys with higher counts are more accepting of girls with higher counts.

    Statistically I think the average number is like 6 or 8 so you're still. within the normal range. Still there are guys who prefer girls in the 0-3 range.

    Also what matters is how you go those numbers, like if they were serious relationships or casual hookups. Or if you had a threesome, that could turn off guys more than the actual number.

  • It's called a slay count lmfao. Body count is what we asked our bros in the Marine Corps when they came back from afghanistan. It's the same meaning but it just sounds strange when you use it in that context lmfao.

    I don't count anymore I'm pretty sure I have the highest slay count of any guy on this website though. It doesn't matter unless you have an STD.

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  • It might matter; it might not matter. Everyone has their own stance and preferences on what they prefer in a partner. I personally wouldn't like a partner who has slept around with many girls but some people don't care for it and will still date you.

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    Body count? I hope you are not talking about people you killed.

    • Body count is the number of people a person had sex with

  • What in the world do you mean by body count and that you have six bodies (Foreigner here!) ? I'm quite frankly confused.

    • Body count is the number of people a person had sex with. She has a body count of 6.

  • I think it's in pretty bad taste to refer to the number of sex partners you've had as a body count.

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  • Will our answers really help?

    It's a very subjective thing. What any of us see as a high count and we he sees as a high count will probably be very different.

  • Why do you have to tell him? It's none of his damn business.

  • Well I'm twenty one so if I found someone with that body count I'd be turned off. One or two I could tolerate. Now if I were 30 then a body count of 6 wouldn't be problematic anymore.

  • It depends on the person on their view of a high body count. And as far as why it matters, let me explain the four big reasons why it matters to a man when dealing with a woman, since we're the ones who emphasize it more. Buckle up, this is gonna take a while.

    1) Men and Women are both biologically hardwired to be attracted and disgusted by certain things. It just so happens that one of the things we guys are instinctively disgusted by are promiscuous women as our girlfriend and/or wife. That's just our nature, just like how it's in a woman's nature to look for a man who can provide and protect. Now when it comes to just sex, they won't care, but a committed relationship is a whole different ballpark.

    2) Stats show that the higher a woman's body count, the more likely she will initiate breakups ans divorces. AND it's more likely she will have mental problems down the long run. You lose your ability to pair bond with every new sexual partner you have, and that's what helps relationships work through tough times... or in general.

    3) When you (a woman) are in a relationship with a man, you are becoming a representation of that man, whether you know it or not. That means that what you say or do is gonna affect him to. So therefore, if you're a hoe, or you say or do some crazy and stupid stuff, not only are you putting yourself in a bad light, but you're putting your boyfriend/husband in a bad light. Because everyone is gonna be like, "This crazy girl is his?" or "This hoe is who he is taking seriously?" That is embarrassing for any man, even if he won't admit it to others or himself.

    4) THIS IS THE MOST IMPORTANT REASON. There is a reason why since the dawn of time, men have demanded that the woman they take seriously are virgins. Not all guys nowadays want virgins now, but still want lower body counts from the woman they take seriously. And the reason why is because they want to ensure paternity. I assume I would be correct if I were to say that a deep dark fear for a lot of women is being r@ped in a dark alley by some creep. That deep feeling of fear that you get, the male equivalent to that is when he busts his ass, investing his blood, sweat, and tears into raising a child, and then finding out one day that the kid was never his. That's why guys have an issue with taking promiscuous women seriously. Because if you take a promiscuous woman seriously, and she gets pregnant, there's a good chance that child may not be yours.

  • Any number higher than 1 is a turn off for me.

  • You mean, you had several relationships?
    Well, you should learn something in each of them.
    It's about being faithful, and the best YOU, you can possibly be in the relationship.
    If he doesn't want you for that, he's shallow, and you don't want that.

    Just do your best in life, try treating him well, and the right boyfriend will never want to leave you!
    Be careful in the picking of the right man for your life!

  • 3 = serial killer

  • Nah, thats fine

  • Do you believe 6 to be a high number yourself?
    Could you answer this too to help me get some perspective?
    www.girlsaskguys.com/.../q2026024-do-you-think-men-are-scared-of-female-sexuality

  • If he truly loves you then he won't care.

  • That's not a lot and don't tell him how many.

  • LOL @ relationships.

  • Yeah it Matters. Sloots gonna sloot.

  • It does matter, although I believe in don't ask, don't tell. But successive partners for a girl result in her losing her capability to sustain a stable, loving relationship and to nurture children. Its like taking a recreational drug that gradually destroys your liver. You won't realize it until it is far too late.

  • 20,30.

    • ahaha nice.

  • That's not bad I met my wife she was 25 her body count was over 50

    • Not sure if serious? But if you are then that's disgusting and you're stupid to put a ring on that.