Whats a huge turn off in sex or like foreplay?

virgin girl here and when im with a guy who has had 30 partners 10 girlfriend's. jeez. What's a turn off I should avoid? Want to make sure I'm hella sexy for him. He's seen sexy so many times :(

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  • No enthusiasm I suppose.

  • A hairy vagina.

    • how hairy

    • Where I can't even see the lips, lol.

    • oh ok yeah no bueno

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  • The greatest would be after he took your virginity, you become #31 partner and #11 girlfriend and #1 (?) virgin and counting.

    And at that time, you may enter so deep a depression that you may need medication.

    Hence be cautious. You can't tell a Player by his looks.

    (Just a friendly warning.)

  • My advice is never be in a relationship with someone that has a past of casual sex or too many failed relationships. If you do you will not be happy long term.

  • Avoid forcing him (ask before doing any act of foreplay or sex) and don’t let him do all the work during foreplay (help guide him to help make you turned on).

    • tip : any undies and bra will do for majority of men (so don’t risk comfort in order to be sexy)

  • there is no telling what may or may not be a turn on or turn off for that guy as none of us are him, know him, or likely even speak to him. you being someone who knows/speaks to him have 10000% more info in figuring that out than all of us on hete combined.

  • I'm a virgin, and I would love to find a virgin girl!

  • dm me

  • Huge red flag!

    30 partners 10 girlfriends... He has issues that stop these girls from seeing him again.

    But I know you won't stop your in love with a man who sucks at sex and relationships! Go become 31 and 11th girlfriend!

    Enjoy the STDs or aids he has and yes you get them from kissing him not just his gross dicky.

    My sister's kinda man just stays for a night then rushes off to the next sex. She wants him after one time he drags her along for 3 years telling her just things she wants to hear.

    Like he wants kids wants a wife and they will soon have a home...

    Left her pregnant twice and ghosted her!

    Enjoy your mistake and not being a virgin!

  • Anal. I would recommend not losing your virginity to him. He is likely to leave after a month of sex.