Whats left to do if your boyfriend visits while your period is on 😔🙈😭 (read below)?

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My period was supposed to come on around the 12th or 14th of this month like it did in November. He and i scheduled his visit around when we thought my period might come on. But this BISH won't COME TF ON!! If it doesn't come on today or tomorrow, it could possibly come on when he arrives 😔 What will I do then? No we werent gonna have sex, but we’re supposed to share a bed. I dont wanna cuddle if thats on and i might even ask him to sleep in the guest room :( and i like can't even sit in his lap while i kiss him for fear of overflowing or period odor. He says we can just make the best of it, but wtf can i do! Its my second time seeing him in person and i wanted it to be a little more special. Im horny af and at least wanted to get fingered or dryhumo or grind or sumn. Now i can't even get a #HelpingHand i mean not if that comes on. Like i wouldn't even want one. Some people are gross and do ish on their period bt not me #Periods I mean i might get lucky and it not come on til after he leaves but ugh

Hans222 · Accepted Answer

I heard a lady on hear talk about her experience with period underwear, and she said that to her surprise it was 100% effective.
This will still not allow you to be intimate but it may at least allow you to cuddle and kiss without being afraid of smelling or leaking...
To be honest, if I were the guy and my girl would talk to me about that, I would tell her: don't bother, you can't change that and I love you as you are :D

james_mark · Accepted Answer

Reschdule the meeting :/

Ms725 · Accepted Answer

Do it anywayyyyy. I’m the shower maybe? Sex actually helps relieve cramps during a period FYI. I mean if he’s okay with it why not? And if you don’t wanna have sex, shower put a tampon in and you can still fool around on the outside and stuff!

fay23 · Accepted Answer

Try a moon cup, you won't feel it and it doesn't have an odor. But no finguring lol

SammyGurl · Answer

Aunty Flo's timing sucks sometimes!

There are lots of things you can do while on your period with him; there's mutual masturbation (tampon for you) you can either masturbate for him and him for you (pretty hot btw!) or you can masturbate eachother, cuddling with lots of kissing, BJ (he probably wouldn't turn that down), I think it's called "outer course" (she inserts a tampon so she isn't all leaky) then straddles him rubbing her labia up and down on his penis lots of lube feels realy good for both! Turns me into a walking orgasm every time!, soaking in a warm bath together, the list just goes on and on as far as your imagination can go for everything less penetration, then again if you're really adventurous there is sex in the shower or on a towel... Just make sure you send Aunty Flo the message, she doesn't control your love life!

GeminiAgent007 · Answer

I'm more self conscious while on my period then my boyfriend is, it doesn't faze him one bit it ain't stopping nothing lol
Not like you can control it so if your boyfriend is down there's no need to stress so much 😉

Kapakani · Answer

Whooooo man... that is not fair!!! Way to ruin a meetup after ages unwanted “thing that comes after sentences” 🐿😩!!! Well, what I’d suggest is that your guy gets a little blood on his armor. Love is war and no one comes out clean yeah haha.  But if you’re super against it... hm🤔🧐... 1. Lady’s mantle tea Those are some natural ways to reduce any heavy flows. And I mean pour it on, like don’t even drink any other fluids for two days until he comes haha. Fingering may be out but now you and he can RUB one out like us fellas haha... no insertion or mess and if so use towels... lots and lots of towels 🤗... You should be ok for steamy make outs and all that. You get nervous just let him lay on top. Reduce lap sitting savvy 🤨... And with that, I wish you good luck and hopefully the Untimely Red Sea will tsunami before he arrives or after he leaves yeah :).

SnapTsch · Answer

You might not be able to get (some) things done to you, but there is still a wide range of things you could do, if not, or you can do things to him.

anmari2001 · Answer

It's just sex...

QueenofCups · Answer

I totally agree with you. I never do sexual stuff on my period. That really sucks. I don't know what else to say except I hope it doesn't come while he's here.

Hal2002 · Answer

Just relax and enjoy the time you have together, if your relationship is not only about sex. Than you will find things to do together, your monthly friend will be with you for years to comes.

DodgersGM · Answer

Just don't make the entire trip about sex. Problem solved.

sawno · Answer

I dont think any guy will have an issue while your having a period, you could still give him a helping hand. As for you it depends on the guy, some will be fine with fingering some won't.

r4ngeF · Answer

seems like you've said it all.. no opinion to make.

CHARismatic110 · Answer

Ughhh that sucks. Hopefully it cooperates and doesn't come on. If not, then you just have to make the best out of it. Cuddling actually isn't so bad when it's on. Make him rub your tummy lol. Plus, make up for it with kissing.

I know when my period is on I don't wanna be bothered. I have cramps and everything. My period came on the last day I was visiting dude and I had nothing with me! I had to ask him to take me to get pads. Totally messed up my last day plans.

ADFSDF1996 · Answer

Try a distraction like watching movies.

JDavid25 · Answer

Well, y'all could just enjoy each others company, or take the proper precautions and make sure that you ain't got an odor and get to poppin.. LOL..

Chaz269 · Answer

My weiner has been the catalyst for menstrual flow when a woman was expecting it, but hadn't started yet. If it's not apparent by the time he arrives, and you're THAT grossed out by period sex, you'd better hold out. Not tryna judge, do your thing, but period sex isn't gross in my opinion. If he's down, you could try to relax about it and give it a shot. What are your thoughts on anal? There are a couple positions in which he can hit your G-spot from the back door.
Finally, if you're absolutely not ok with period sex, you definitely don't want to alienate him to another room. Cuddle, snuggle, sleep together, relax and enjoy each other! You know blood washes out, right? But a weekend without intimacy could leave a scar. What are you gonna do if he's the one, and you end up living together, alienate the love of your life one week out of every month? Talk it over with him, and don't shut yourself off.

pervertedjester · Answer

Two words: Shower sex.

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

My ex-girlfriend use to visit me while she was on her menstrual cycle and it was not a deal breaker we just kissed and didn't do anything and we did cuddle but that was about it.