Whats the biggest thing that defines 'pegging' as 'pegging' & not something else thats similar?

I kno that was confusing so ill explain.. I am only now learning about this word & what it means, and yet.. I've also known about similar things that have been going on for many lifetimes & isn't at all new.. like in general men who may be gay or bi who like taking it up the booty, or even straight men who like a tiny stimulation back there from a female, etc.. its all old news at this point.. but suddenly this 'pegging' stuff is all i seem to hear about, like its a brand new concept, and thats why I'm confused... is there something specific thats newer and makes pegging, pegging.. and not just "dudes who likes it up the booty"? Like.. does the man & woman both have to be heterosexual in order for it to be categorized as pegging? Orr is it less about sexual orientation and more about the fact that it just has to be a FEMALE being in the "man's role".. regardless of whether the receiver is bisexual, straight, or gay? Would pegging always specifically require the use of a strap-on or is ANY form of penatration to a man's ass classified as pegging too? So again, I guess I am just wondering WHAT SPECIFICALLY it is that makes "pegging" pegging & not somethin else? And sorry lol, jus got this app & I had to think of my "first question ".. this was all I could think of for now!
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  • I'm no expert on this topic but this is what I understand of it, maybe one day I will have a little more insight into it, but for now this is what I understand of it.
    Pegging as I understand it would only be classified as a women using a strap on to penetrate a man. Asides from it being pleasurable for a man, as the prostate is up there, I think it's more to do with domination, like a role reversal when the woman is the dominant one. As it is sex between a man and a woman it's still classified as straight sex, although many men would consider it a gay act, because they feel it would be an assault on their masculinity, those men are dambasses though lol
    The only think that can be a gay act is sex between 2 men and that is nothing to do with pegging.

    • Oh my gosh you're so right, I never looked at it that way for some reason!

    • i don’t agree on the domination thing. that’s just toxic masculinity. i get pegged and i am still the “ dom”.

    • @Philyouup How is a woman being dominant toxic masculinity? 🤔😂

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  • Pegging is the act of a woman who pennitrates a male with a strap-on, a dildo or vibrator. It usually is a strait male that is getting pegged. A male does not have to be gay or bisexual to enjoy being pegged. The male body has a g-spot in the rectum that when stimulated can result in more intense orgasms. Many men enjoy being pegged because of this and with the added mental stimulation of a beautiful woman being the one stimulating the area increases the pleasure even more. It's become more acceptable in recent years but many men either hide the fact they have done it and enjoy it or are afraid of being labeled as gay for liking it. In reality it has nothing to do with what gender you are attracted to.

    • Wow!! And yea thats partially one of my curiosities as well, I wasn't sure if a fully straight man could even possibly be in to something like this or not! So that is very interesting & good to know & good to understand a little better.. thanks for explaining!

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  • I’ve wanted to try this. @serenity_87 have you done this?

    • No I haven't ever tried it.. omg actually I KIND OF have done something similar that I can't believe I forgot about! Probably cause it was so long ago & it wasn't done out of any sexual desire what so ever but only to prove a point.. cause the idea of penatrating a man has never turned me on but back when I had just recently lost my virginity my boyfriend at the time said something during anal sex like "God it couldn't hurt THAT bad!!" Because I was asking him to go slow (which I now know was where I had it wrong, but thats off the point).. anyways it pissed me off cuz how he said it was basically like he was calling me a pussy or somethin so I told him if he can take it any better than I can then he can say stuff like that but if he's too pussy to even TRY it then he better not ever complain about it like that again! I now wanted him to see for himself what it feels like so he would be a little more understanding to it. He agreed, so I used a very large item and I did not take it slow or easy on him, I only did it for about 5 seconds before he was screaming and telling me to stop LOL he never complained again. But after the relationship ended years later I also found out that he is now gay/bi! So you obviously enjoyed it on a certain level, or more likely he was already bisexual and that's why he was open to it when I suggested he try it. Anyways like I said I got no sexual satisfaction from doing that, and I honestly don't know if I could ever bring myself to try pegging! Again, if I did it would not bring me any satisfaction it would all be for the other person.

    • But if you have always wanted to try it oh, I say go for it LOL I've got plenty of things I've never tried that I have always wanted to but I don't know if I've got the guts to actually act on any of the desires. But as I get older I'm more and more inclined to allow myself to do try something if I want to try it! But I'm not quite there yet haha

    • Oh wow. Thanks for sharing! Can I message you?

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  • Yeah it does seem confusing! From my understanding, pegging is when a woman has a strap on and penetrates the guy for anal stimulation... similar to a guy using a dildo on himself for anal... only pegging uses a strap on and woman performs it.
    I don’t think the gay/ bi/ straight label is applicable, it can be done by any of those sexual orientations.

  • I see a lot saying they want to explore pegging am in California and am down. Big strap please 🥺

  • The definition of it is a straight man getting penetrated anally by a woman. I've had a few girlfriends that I have done it with and I enjoyed it as did they. I'm 100% straight and for me the benefit is obviously the prostate orgasm, but I also love the role reversal. For the women that have pegged me it was about the role reversal and one in particular said that was the biggest turn on for her. She wouldn't have an orgasm physically from the act of pegging like the others, but from the actual act of pegging me. She called it a mental orgasm, but she was also turned on by the fact that I could have an orgasm from her just pegging me and not touching me at all.

  • I have no idea this is not my world

    • I hear ya on that.. I'm learning so much for a 34 yr old! Its like I've had my head in the sand the last 10 years during my dead marriage & now getting a divorce & being single for the first time in 10 years & Its a whole new world thats for sure!! In some ways it makes me wanna scream & run in the opposite direction rather than actually try dating in this insane new culture! But the other part of me is trying to accept it, adapt to it, & try allowing myself to even enjoy some of the crazy.. sense the world is givin out free passes, apparently haha. After that hell of a marriage I officially ALLOW myself to go off the rails & make some bad decisions for an extended-yet brief, period of time before I return back to my usual good-girl self. I deserve that much at least I think.

    • Which is all COMPLETELY unrelated to my original post by the way lol its all starting to paint a very different picture than intended haha. I'm goin through a little rebellious or "bad" phase with wrong/bad decisions being made but nothing quite THAT extreme lol no pegging for me.

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  • Dang !!! And I thought we were talking "pigging," a word for disgustingly bopping and summarily dumping an overweight woman.

  • men are finally not being homophobic and enjoying anal with their gal.

  • I love it when the wife and i reverse roles and she screws me

  • do girls understand that the male g spot, is found, anally?

    • I do understand that.. but I just thought that must mean straight men are just shit outta luck on the g-spot front! But I guess not!

    • It just means, if a girl wants to peg him, it'll most likely feel good to him. it's not a punishment, i don't think a lot of girls understand this. and i wish they'd stop assuming

    • No sweetie! My husband is way straight. Took me two years of persuading (and alcohol) for him to relax and let me explore his “g spot” and OH did he go wild for me! Now he almost begs (I love seeing my man beg) and assumes the position hoping I’ll go there again! He’s also very ticklish which is much to MY advantage. PM me if you wanna chat about men girl to girl!

  • Just FYI Circumcised men have more pleasure nerve endings in their Prostate than in their penis... So maybe stop mutilating baby boys...

    Also Liking prostate stimulation does not make you gay... If you are only romantically attracted to woman like I am, that does not change the physiological fact that you have a G spot up your butt.

  • My wife used to peg me for decades. It was something new and a change of pace. When ever she was in the mood to do this, we would play all evening, get each other really aroused and horny. Then when she hit my prostate just right, it was a mind blowing orgasm. I aways really liked watching her facial expressions... Fun times...

  • Female wearing dildo > male receiving

  • I think in order to call it pegging, it gotta include a woman in a dominant role and a man in a submissive role at least for the act, and the woman must use a strap-on to look like she is penetrating the man, the act doesn't affect the man's sexuality, he can be fully straight and enjoy this kind of stimulation.

  • It is really all about the degradation which is the real turn-on.

  • The term "pegging" is relatively new, but the act isn't and I don't think anyone claims it is. It has just become more popular, just like women enjoying anal sex (receiving) has become much more popular in recent years even though it has been going on since the beginning of time.