Whats the difference between cheating and watching porn?

Question

If you think its ok to watch porn while in a relationship then what makes actually cheating wrong

Lliam · Accepted Answer

I notice hot-looking babes when I'm out and about, too. OMG, is that cheating?

The thing is, my wife knows and doesn't care. She has even nudges me on rare occasions to call attention to something spectacular. She understands that I would never cheat on her and that appreciating the female form in the same way one would appreciate flowers, scenery, art or cute puppies is normal. She appreciates hot guys and certain movie stars, too.

As for porn. Lots of people masturbate when sex with their partner isn't on the near horizon.

I had a particular hypersexual girlfriend before I was married. We had sex at least twice a day and sometimes for hours at a time without pause. We both worked full time.
At some point, I found her vibrating dildo and she said that she sometimes masturbated when I wasn't around. I don't know where she found the time. Was she thinking about me? I have no idea. But the revelation only increased my admiration for her amazing libido.

I've even watched hot porn scenes when getting my dick sucked. What's to get jealous about?

TommyMountainFigure · Accepted Answer

My g/f doesn't object to me watching porn. She would I suspect object to me cheating. That's the difference for me.

Ms_Vanderquack · Accepted Answer

If you don’t know the answer to that you shouldn’t be allowed to date.

Curmudgeon · Answer

Uh, the difference between watching something and actually being an active participant, and all that.

summiter · Answer

Watching you are watching some other guy get off. Cheating is when you are the guy doing the deed.

DonkeyDan · Answer

Geez, I hope you're not in a relationship

qwert1234 · Answer

Porn = no connection, physically, emotionally, sexually. It's like a sex toy, an object to get off.

oncpl · Answer

Watching porn isn't cheating. It's temporary enjoyment where one doesn't involve physically, while in cheating physically involvement is necessary part of sex with a girl or guy outside of conjugal or love relations.