Whats the difference between sex with someone you like and someone you're hooking up w?

Like physically tell signs or signs that can be noticed

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  • Honestly I would like them first before I had sex with them. Take some time to get to know them to see if you connect and that they like you for who you are.

    If you rush in and hookup too fast, without knowing them that well, chances are you'll be with a guy who just wants to get in your pants and he just wants instant gratification (because if he doesn't know you that well, he can't really love you, right?)

    So that means he wants just one thing. And once he gets what he wants chances are he'll treat you like shit afterwards, because he has no interest in you on a personal level (like typical guy bullshit -- like he won't hang out with you that much afterwards, won't keep in touch that much, etc).

    So unless you just want a one night stand (which I totally get) take at least some time to get to know him and see if he likes spending lots of time with you. That's the acid test to see if he likes you for who you are. Then chances are he'll stick with you in and out of the sack.

Most Helpful Guy

  • Sex with friend or random person usually does not involve a lot of kissing and holding close and staring into each others eyes. Sex with someone you have feelings for usually involves those things plus you go out of your way to make sure they are satisfied.

Most Helpful Girls

  • with someone i like, i want to explore with them and i’m all over them because they make me happy in all ways. with a hookup i don’t really care about the person so i don’t have any true incentive to make them feel good or go above and beyond for them.

  • Sex with someone I have feelings for is more of an emotional connection so I'm more open to them emotionally while doing it.

    Sex with just a hookup who I find sexy is more primal and just fucking.

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • I never really knew until afterwards and over the following two weeks. If they snub you a little and the first time talking or seeing one another it is friends with benefits.

  • hookup material has only sex appeal and nothing else to offer

    relationship material has some sex appeal but everything else to offer

    • What about friends with benefits material?

  • Just sex no caring you dont need to love some one but just really care about them an want to be with them

  • not a thing it's SEX and good too

  • Fuck around and find out

  • If he or she don't leave immediately after sex