Well yes. This is for sure a problem. This might be a problem with porn, or it might be a separate problem and withdrawing from actual sex is the 'symptom' of it.
I think that there is no question that this is a problem. I think you should absolutely try and have a non-confrontational talk with him about how you're feeling. I'm not sure what's going on here, but anyone will be able to understand that you're bringng up a very fair and valid concern.
Other than trying to talk about it, to find out as much as you can about the nature of the situation you're dealing with... I'm not sure what else to suggest.
But definitely a problem. And one that you shouldn't be quiet about!
You are comparing 2 different things here. Porn is and escape. A fantasy. You are a real person that brings real feelings. Those 2 dont have to mix. Yes you are open to a lot of things but a lot of men still like that fantasy realm. Having sex is pleasure and masturbation is to finish. Hard to explain but for a lot of guys masturbation is to relive and urge not express. But they put themselves in a dream state. There is a purpose for you that goes beyond sexual health. Dont see the limit at just that
He is not having sex with me and not interested in me at all. He sneaks amd watches porn instead. The minute i leave the house, he is straight to the interent searching different sites. Even when he has important things to be doing. If he hasn't jerked off, he is moody, agitated and short tempered
There's likely a deeper issue at play. It'll take some emotional work on both parts, but why does he resort to porn instead of you? With my ex, I would still watch porn on occasion after we fight or when she's not available. But I'd seldom do it if she was around and in the mood. But the few times it did happen, there was an underlying reason (in my case, stress and insecurity). What your partner is doing isn't normal. I strongly encourage you to ask and get to know why he makes these choices. If he can't be forthcoming and explore what he's feeling with you, that says something about his emotional vulnerability with you. TLDR: there's an underlying issue you need to figure out with him
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!I think that's how some men feel about women who use sex toys. It's ok, but once toys and porn start to replace the relationship the couple starts to lose their bond and drift apart.
It can lead to a problem. As you know all guys masturbate but 99%b of them prefer sex to solo. Have you spoken to him about it? How often are you having sex with him? Would it help if you two got naked and watched some (not a lot) of porn together and see if that leads to sex?
He has no interest in sex with me anymore so he is not up for suggestions. He denies he does it in the first place. Its become an obsessiom
Did you try watch it with him? but yea looks like he take to far, he seems to be porn addict.
Seems more like he is the problem, and you're deflecting.
Get him medical help as he's probably suffering depression and not wanting to put your through it.
Better question is why do you tolerate it? If you're not getting what you need out of the relationship and he's happy with yanking his crank watching porn. Tell him to enjoy himself and move on
It’s a serious problem. This is one of the potential dangers of porn.
And I'll tell you what I do at the start of my relationships when I'm first meeting woman I tend to ejaculate very easily usually within like 45 minutes because we're still getting to know each other but about a week or two in and I start to figure out her king's and what pleases her and we'll get her to climax it becomes less stimulating for me because I'm more concerned about her needs than my own and also I like to prolong sexual activity so I end up with this massive problem and not being able to ejaculate which eventually I can which I switch mindsets to I want to hurry up and finish. With porn it's just so much easier you can just get it in just do what you want to do get right to your climactic point and be done.
I agree. He's an idiot. Dump his ass.
Yeah, that sucks. You should tell him how you are feeling. Tell him that you want to watch porn together and offer him a handjob or blowjob. Ask him what he likes in the porn and offer to try it with him. Ask if he would be interested in ba no masterbation rule unless you have the partner's permission.
You aren't leaving him, that's why you are still together
Time to dump him and move on unfortunately. But you probably know that already
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