Whats wrong with virgin males?

[thewiggles]

I am a virgin male and I can't tell if people inherently avoid us or is it just for other reasons like too emotional... or no reasons?

[Darcia]

Uh.. there is a problem with that I don’t like being first to them some become too clingy, insecure, just overall a problem. It seems they aren’t experienced either. They don’t know how to have sex, initiate anything, they want the girl to go first get on top, I don’t like a man who don’t know how to do anything. Experienced is better. I’ve dated a couple of inexperienced guys before disaster is what it was. They also have a difficult time conversating with women either they say the wrong thing or they just come off as wrong I don’t know what their problem is. I mean how hard is it to get advice from your father your mother someone who is experienced going online go onto YouTube. Getting the knowledge you’ll need for a relationship especially if your new. Go ask an older brother or sister, a player 😂 watch black cinema movies. Something..

[thewiggles]

Mmhm yeah I get it. I'm a virgin though and I'm totally in control if I understand the situation. I had a chance once apparently and we'd become good friends over months of everyday flirts and constant phone calls and inside personal jokes. We connected the best I ever imagined I could. Then the week I come down to see her, she found a girlfriend and I am left to assume I'm a type of fuckin idiot for not assuming I was supposed to do something to stop it. They are getting married now, I've tried to be supportive but I can't. I have become insane trying to include her in my life in the passed years. So yes these kinds of situations where it's not natural, not just straight forward I can see it being confusing in the moment. But I was willing to be wild, to be what we had talked about. To go all out. It was gay week, she's talked about how much she's felt the need of a girl. So why would I stop it. I went, there anyway, huge pauses at times and I assume now those were points she was waiting for me to do something but I was kinda just pissed. Anyway I've learned not to give so much fuck and how to just follow my gut. And you can't learn anything physical from a computer like that. and I'm sure a lot of virgins get stuck in this everyone wants experienced players thing.

[Randomawkwardness]

Eh, I don't want to be someones first but there's nothing wrong with them. I just don't want them to always think of me as their absolute first because that's really special to some and I would probably ruin it.

[chriscdi]

im virgin and have local girls on my snap but im in no rush, when i wanna ill choose one or something, im not emotional, i just dont worry or complain about my virginity, ig thats key, confidence and having your way with women.

[Avicenna]

Most likely it's the vibes you give off about lacking confidence and being self-conscious about your virginity.

[thewiggles]

I think this is accurate in most cases but I myself am actually quite open with it I feel. I'll joke about it at parties and what not so I don't know.

[Bandit74]

Girls generally want a guy who takes the lead in the bedroom and is more experienced than they are. Also with how common casual sex is, most girls are used to being with guys who have a lot of experience and don't really find the thought of being with a guy with zero experience appealing.

They also might assume you are more insecure in general and write you off for that reason.

So really it's probably not a good idea to tell a girl you are a virgin.

[GloriaMc]

Nothing wrong with it.

[User_Friendly]

Women have the looks, men have the game. Its a daily battle, keep at it bud

[Anonymous]

Absolutely nothing! I would just never date one.

[thewiggles]

Why not though?