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Whats Your Opinion on Women & Orgasm During Sex?

should a woman be responsible for her own orgasm during sex, yes or no, and please comment why you think either one. thanks!
Yes she is responsible for her own orgasm
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No, she is not responsible for her own orgasm.
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Yes and no. It depends on what you mean.

    Yes:

    It takes two to fuck, it's not a solo activity. It shouldn't be about just one person. Men should not be sexually selfish. They should be willing to put in the effort to please their women and that includes adequate foreplay which is crucial.

    No:

    It's very possible a man can be a very thoughtful and attentive lover and still not be able to bring his woman off. As good as he is he will never know a woman's body better than she knows herself. If she just lies there and expects him to know all the right buttons to push at exactly the right time she'll still likely be disappointed. Maybe some women are lucky enough or easily stimulated enough to be able to orgasm with ease but for most it takes some effort on her part, too, I think. It's not always true but it's often true that the female orgasm is more elusive and harder to bring about than the male orgasm. Only about 30% of women can come from penetration alone. She needs to participate and communicate and help her partner help her receive the pleasure that she needs. Maybe that means telling him where and how to touch her, maybe it means angling her body a certain way so that his penis hits her g-spot better or her clitoris is grinding on his body, maybe it means learning how to let go of stress and be in the right frame of mind for an orgasm to be possible.

  • It should be a partnership, so you should both work together to get each other off, if you can't do this, then you need a few more efforts to try and get to know each other a bit better.

    • i like that.. partnership!

Most Helpful Girls

  • A woman is responsible for her own orgasm in the sense that she should a) familiarize herself with her own body and what she likes/dislikes; b) communicate her likes/dislikes/needs to her partner; c) show her partner what she enjoys, if necessary; d) involve herself in bringing herself to orgasm, if necessary (e.g. she can rub her clitoris during PIV sex), e) provide feedback to her partner.

    Her partner also plays a role too, however. (S)He should a) ask her what she likes/dislikes/needs' b) follow her instructions; c) make an effort to bring her to orgasm.

    • ^This^

    • Best answer. If she doesn't provide the road map, she shouldn't be surprised if he doesn't arrive at the destination.

    • Agreed

  • In one respect she is responsible for anything that happens to her body, but that should include only having sex with a partner who is willing to give full effort in satisfying her and getting her to those orgasms. To continue having sex with someone who won't help accomplish this is her fault and her responsibility!

  • Well, partially. She is responsible in the meaning she should masturbate and find out what she wants, giving the guy tips and directions.

    But the guy must help too, I mean, its impossible to orgasm if all he wants is to pound you straight ahead without even a foreplay.

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • Yes because what works for one girl does not work for all girls. Different girls like different things and get turned on in different ways.

    If a guy is just that lazy in bed well... get another guy because this is the age of disposable males anyway.

    Even if the girl's stuck with a "minute man" he can still masturbate her to orgasm.

  • She only has to be responsible for explaining what she really likes (if she's not already getting it).

    After that,she should get as much as she can possibly accept,until she has no more orgasms left and she needs a break.

  • Its his job to study you and learn what gives you the most pleasure.. orgasm is a gift to you lovely ladies..

  • Not solely responsible but she should have a Plan B.

  • C. It's a shared responsibility.

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