Whats your safe word when "playing"?

Its always good form to have an agreed to word or two that can be said to stop or slow down whatever may be happening. Part of the respect and trust between a M/D and s is that when the s says it, things will immediately stop and/or be re-evaluated.

there's always the defaults of 'Red', 'Yellow', and 'Green.' but do you have different words you use with your partners?
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Most Helpful Girls

  • We usually either use the red/yellow/green system or go for a hard safe word which would be 'rose', depends how we feel which system we use... We also have a simple non-verbal tapping for if I can't speak.

  • I just hold onto a squeezy ball, and if it drops, it means I went unconscious.

    • I'll do that if i'm unable to speak, for whatever reason.

Most Helpful Guys

  • I stick to the stop lights. It is easy to remember and everyone uses them, and your not likely to accidentally call out "red light"

  • Usually purple, red comes up in conversation too often

    • However, Meatloaf is the best safeword. I’d do anything for love, but I won’t do THAT!

    • LOL. Thats a unique way of looking at it.

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • "Oh my!"

  • Red yellow green is the best way by far i clicked here to suggest it cause once we implemented it made it so much better

  • Shazam

  • Dear god. Beginners. Wow.

  • no need, im aware of situation at all times

  • lemontree

  • Keep going

  • Pineapples

  • I don't need them. I usually don't practice bdsm.

  • Harder

  • We always have the Red, Yellow, and Green in the mix, but the Default has always been “Rubber Ducky”.

  • Her safe word is mushrooms because she is allergic to them

  • Stop.