When a girl is sucking a boy, why does he always need to jerk off into her mouth when he cums? Can he not just let her suck the cum out of his balls?

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  • There's several theories that I have.
    1) control- who doesn't want to be in control?
    2) watching- maybe he likes watching how eagerly the girl is waiting for his cum and he gets satisfaction in watching it either splatter her face or fill her mouth
    3) she probably isn't very good at it- maybe it feel good enough to get him almost there but not enough to get him off. Could try using the tongue more especially right below the head on the underside and you could use your hands. Yes I said hand (S) that means both. Massage his balls and shaft at the same time!

  • I think a guy only does that if he wants it faster or a different rythm than whats beeing done. I can handle whichever he wants but like knowing when I can do it all myself LOL

    • I like when I can do it myself better

  • I'm assuming you have gathered this information from porn because this is not what guys do at all.

    • Yeah you are right. Not all do.

    • some of us do.

  • When I give head I always suck the cum out and swallow. Never jack it to finish.

    • hoooooooooot

    • You know how to finish :p

Most Helpful Guys

  • If she has sufficient skills, she can likely suck him off but it's not really all that easy for some guys to cum from oral alone. I have and she was exceptionally skilled: yanked me to her face, took my big boy balls deep and I came down her throat. Deep throating improves the odds he'll cum.

    Just FYI:

    www.girlsaskguys.com/.../a7404-blow-jobs-tips-from-a-deep-throat-queen

  • I actually prefer to just nut in her mouth without saying anything.
    Even give a magic dragon

    • That's what I'm saying. Just go ahead and nut in her mouth cuz that's what we want or we wouldn't be sucking your duck in the first place.

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  • a lot of chicks can't do it right, ya it feels good but in order for us to actually finish we need to do to their mouths what we do to other holes. which can be extremely unpleasant and painful for your face. but some guys can (i for one) only most chicks dont like it shot down their throats and choke and gag on the ejaculate

    • Right. I don't want him to ejaculate down my throat either. I want it in my mouth where I can enjoy it for a few moments before I decide when to send it down.

  • I donno. Maybe control? He wants to see it all happen, and see her take it? But once out of her mouth, some manual control is needed to make sure he still cums?
    But honestly? I'm perfectly happy to leave it there and let her at it. And if everything happens with no hands, that's even better.

  • Sounds good to me!

  • could be a lot of things... it may feel better for the man to assist with his hand. it may be the best way for him to climax. perhaps the girl gets him close but not over the finish line

    the reason really depends on the guy

  • He can. What gave you the idea he can't? Is this what you've seen in porn or real experience? Cause I can't see why a guy wouldn't want to try the latter. Unless maybe she's just not very good and he literally can't, rather than not wanting to.

  • *virgin in every way here*

    Well if it is easier to orgasm from jerking off into her mouth then how do BJs feel that great?

  • Yes she could... Most of the jerking off in her mouth is just stupid porn shit that guys that are inexperienced think that is what you are suppose to do.

    • bullshit. that's one of the funnest ways to finish-jerking off onto her tongue with a devilish look in her eye as you do it. Or jerking off while she sucks the head-killer way to finish get with the program

    • @feminismisnarcissism Not it's only for dumb frat boys... to get off to.

  • Contrary to porn preferred "money shots"
    YES - to the guy this is the ultimate ending and feeling, same if in vag
    always been that way

    You have the right idea! kudos

  • More control pretty much

    • exactly!

  • I can't cum from oral sex. It feels good, I just can't get there, so I do that as an alternative because the women I date generally like to swallow. If it weren't for that, I wouldn't care anything about it.

  • It's a porn thing. The camera can't see it happening inside her mouth so the whole "pull out to jack it on her face" bullshit started.

    • bullshit. you men are deprived. it's visually stimulating in reality too, to see your cum shoot into her mouth, all over her tongue and then she gobbles it down. And wipes the remainder off her face into her mouth, like she can't get enough. go back to the monastary, yo

  • The jerking motion makes the orgasm stronger

  • if she's really good she can suck it out-i prefer both

  • Hey if a chick wants to drain my balls with no hesitation then I'll definitely let her.

  • You surely can...
    But i think its that we wanna aim and give you your reward.

    But i'm happy to have a girl finish me off

  • The hand does a better job of emptying the nut sack...

    • Really? I guess that is OK then because the whole point of the blowjob is to drain his balls, let him relax and get some rest. Having him use his hand just seems like he is masturbating instead of letting me suck the cum out of hi,. you know?

    • I mean yea the mouth does a great job also. But I don't know its just a natural thing you don't think about, self pleasure can be equally beautiful in the presence of someone you're turned on by. Unless you want his hand on the back of your head shoving his cock down your throat? Take the kids straight to the stomach... if ya know what i mean lol.

  • I don't think that's necessarily always the case. For some guys, I think they're used to their hands, and can cum more quickly that way.

  • Yeah... I agree with you... kind of pointless otherwise.

  • sure we can lol. maybe seen too much porn

  • Of course he can.

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