When a girl is sucking a boy, why does he always need to jerk off into her mouth when he cums? Can he not just let her suck the cum out of his balls?

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TheMistress · Accepted Answer

There's several theories that I have.
1) control- who doesn't want to be in control?
2) watching- maybe he likes watching how eagerly the girl is waiting for his cum and he gets satisfaction in watching it either splatter her face or fill her mouth
3) she probably isn't very good at it- maybe it feel good enough to get him almost there but not enough to get him off. Could try using the tongue more especially right below the head on the underside and you could use your hands. Yes I said hand (S) that means both. Massage his balls and shaft at the same time!

SarahsSummer · Accepted Answer

I think a guy only does that if he wants it faster or a different rythm than whats beeing done. I can handle whichever he wants but like knowing when I can do it all myself LOL

BaileyisDarcy · Accepted Answer

I'm assuming you have gathered this information from porn because this is not what guys do at all.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

When I give head I always suck the cum out and swallow. Never jack it to finish.

AustinMan · Accepted Answer

If she has sufficient skills, she can likely suck him off but it's not really all that easy for some guys to cum from oral alone. I have and she was exceptionally skilled: yanked me to her face, took my big boy balls deep and I came down her throat. Deep throating improves the odds he'll cum.

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OfDeath · Accepted Answer

I actually prefer to just nut in her mouth without saying anything. Even give a magic dragon

Borginborg · Answer

a lot of chicks can't do it right, ya it feels good but in order for us to actually finish we need to do to their mouths what we do to other holes. which can be extremely unpleasant and painful for your face. but some guys can (i for one) only most chicks dont like it shot down their throats and choke and gag on the ejaculate

ksoma · Answer

I donno. Maybe control? He wants to see it all happen, and see her take it? But once out of her mouth, some manual control is needed to make sure he still cums?
But honestly? I'm perfectly happy to leave it there and let her at it. And if everything happens with no hands, that's even better.

OlderAndWiser · Answer

Sounds good to me!

madhatters4 · Answer

could be a lot of things... it may feel better for the man to assist with his hand. it may be the best way for him to climax. perhaps the girl gets him close but not over the finish line

the reason really depends on the guy

ivaneca · Answer

He can. What gave you the idea he can't? Is this what you've seen in porn or real experience? Cause I can't see why a guy wouldn't want to try the latter. Unless maybe she's just not very good and he literally can't, rather than not wanting to.

DarkHumorRUs · Answer

*virgin in every way here* Well if it is easier to orgasm from jerking off into her mouth then how do BJs feel that great?

NJ_Casanova · Answer

Yes she could... Most of the jerking off in her mouth is just stupid porn shit that guys that are inexperienced think that is what you are suppose to do.

FemWorship · Answer

Contrary to porn preferred "money shots" YES - to the guy this is the ultimate ending and feeling, same if in vag always been that way You have the right idea! kudos

Hai_tis_E · Answer

More control pretty much

VirginiaBeachBum · Answer

I can't cum from oral sex. It feels good, I just can't get there, so I do that as an alternative because the women I date generally like to swallow. If it weren't for that, I wouldn't care anything about it.

meatballs21 · Answer

It's a porn thing. The camera can't see it happening inside her mouth so the whole "pull out to jack it on her face" bullshit started.

tyber1 · Answer

The jerking motion makes the orgasm stronger

feminismisnarcissism · Answer

if she's really good she can suck it out-i prefer both

HeresJames1 · Answer

Hey if a chick wants to drain my balls with no hesitation then I'll definitely let her.

SmokemJay · Answer

The hand does a better job of emptying the nut sack...

CaliSoccerGuy · Answer

You surely can... But i think its that we wanna aim and give you your reward. But i'm happy to have a girl finish me off

greycadillacs · Answer

I don't think that's necessarily always the case. For some guys, I think they're used to their hands, and can cum more quickly that way.

dudeinohio · Answer

Yeah... I agree with you... kind of pointless otherwise.

Yumix · Answer

sure we can lol. maybe seen too much porn

anonman32 · Answer

Of course he can.

skeptic002 · Answer

its hard to cum from oral sex at least for me anyway most girls don't know the spots

red_knight · Answer

hey... its coz its a dick and balls not a straw with ice... it doesn't work that way lol and one thing I've noticed is the guy will stroke if the bj is simple.. iv had gifls give such extensive head that they're holding my hands and I still shoot... research on how your guy likes being blown... it'll make it easier for you to handle him.

YourName123 · Answer

i like it both ways, happy to demonstrate!

sexcrazy12 · Answer

good for the orgasm, but just sucking it out his balls are fine too. many times when I did cum I would buck into her, basically face fuck her, and that feels great as well.

abc--123 · Answer

I've never done this

openmind67 · Answer

If u can sucking good, he can dont need jerkoff

Tatt0o2 · Answer

It just feels amazing.

Anonymous · Answer

This question makes me wanna cum my pants

Anonymous · Answer

Some girls aren't that good at head and can't get the guy off without his help. Some guys are just used to the motion of masturbating in order to cum. You can always do both suck his head and use your hand to jerk him off. But the best head I ever got from a girl was when she just sucked me dry. Oh yea!