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When a guy befriends a girl (and she is above a 6 in his opinion), then he is saying he is happy to sleep with her.
Guys often subconciously choose friends based on attraction. If he is single, and if he deems you above a 5.5/10, then he is friends with you for more than being just friends.
I.e. He has chosen you to be in his inner circle as he deems you an attractive potential female that he would happily have sex with.
Think about it...
Do you have friends that you would not sleep with if given the chance?
I have never been active "friends" with a female I didn't want to have sex with... as in the ones you make a real effort to text.
He deems you worthy to sleep with him.
Threesome fantasies involving female friends of either the guy or girl are common.
Fantasies about or getting turned on by a female friend or multiple friends is the norm.
A female friend who eats a hot dog is likely to have her friend imagining her licking his hot dog!
If a friend is suggestive and he isn't attracted to her, then he would only be turned on by the act, not the girl. But who are his friends is not who others deem to be, but who he DEEMS TO BE.
So of the friendship group or 1000 friends on FB, maybe 30-40 are really friends. And those are a special harem he believes are sexually desirable.
Guys have often jerked off to this select group of actual female friends.
What Girls & Guys Said
24 32Yeah I find my female friend attractive I dont sleep with them out of respect foir their husbands/boyfriends and whatever but if single and willing I would bang most of them
Oh god, no I meant single friends. As in you might find someone with a boyfriend attractive, but you only would bang single ones right?
exactly I mean I would bang probably 90% of my female friends if they were single
Yes so true!!! I reckon the figure is close to 90-95% of times the answer to "Would you sleep with me?" from an attractive AND nice female friend who was single would be yes.
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I can pretty much confirm. I almost exclusively only befirend women I find physically attractive.
Lol. Well said. How to get them to initiate and beg you to bang?
To the point lol!
How do you judge before you befriend, as in a rating?
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That's hard to say. Quantifying attractiveness into the 1-10 scale would depend on a few different factors.
Such as? And check out that take if you can!
Well, it would depend if we were applying standard distribution or percentiles. For example, is a 9 in the top ten percent of women, or the top 2.5%? That would depend on what distribution I'm using.
Top 2.5%. As a 9 has got to be outstanding. A 10 a perfect. Of course, you can have 9.1's as well!
Applying that model, I'd say she would have to be a 6.5 or above for me to be friends with her (unless she has an outrageously good personality).
Yeah true that. 100% (by standard distribution or any other way).
I'd say similar. And she would have to ALSO have a good personality to want to sleep with her.
Can you check out that cho chang thread pls?
www.girlsaskguys.com/.../a22945-harry-potter-should-have-ended-up-with-cho-chang
And possibly this too?
www.girlsaskguys.com/.../q1735669-if-a-guy-friend-told-you-female-friend-that-you-might-be-adept-at-a
You do appear to be wise! Would appreciate it!
Yes, I have a female friend I love. One. I have more than one female friend and I'm not attracted to any of the others. That is entirely possible. Admittedly, if I'm really close to a girl I'll probably love her but I'm not talking about close friends.
Yeah? Nice bro. Hang on in there. That's good cos good lovers are good friends.
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:) Good take as well, couldn't agree more.
Thanks, please comment on it, would appreciate the views on there! =)
I honestly don't have a single friend that I'm attracted to.
Ok, fair enough. You will though... you will.
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I really doubt that.
Have faith. Also pls check out that take. Would appreciate it.
Faith in what though? I'm not really interested And I did check out the take. It was great and I agree with it.
That's fine then. Only choose people you are interested in. Thanks. Pls comment on it! Trying to get opinions!
SO NOT TRUE
I've been friends with kinda fat girls and no I would definitely not want to sleep with them... no offence bro but I don't think you have much social intelligence
Lol, if you read this, you would realize that several criteria have to be met - you have to personally individually (i. e. not your friends think they're hot, you must) find them attractive and also at the same time nice. You wouldn't sleep with a stranger you don't find hot and nice, so why a friend?
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not my style. it's a waste.
Clarify?
all this is talking about are meaningless flings... it's an empty life, one that makes you a player, a liar, and a thief. it's a wasteful existence.
It's not meaningless if you're friends. Friends should be friends if they find each other to be nice people. They're not objects dude.
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I know they're not objects
Good good. Check that out
The truth about whether men would like to sleep with their female friends cannot be answered by your admission that you would like to sleep with any of them above a certain level of attractiveness, as that is just YOU.
The real answer is that 60% of men would like to do what you stated, and the other 40% would NOT. Read it right here on GaG, a recent post I saw today.
I mean, I think it's if you find them attractive and they offered. Fantasies often involve female friends as well. How would you compliment a female friend on appearance when meeting them? How to wish them a happy valentines or halloween?
Wouldn't many guys if they were offered by the female friend, go for it? If they found them attractive AND a nice person (and were thus actual friends)?
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You simply don't give compliments on looks at the first meeting or introduction or encounter! That is a guy thing. Women want to hear that you like her personality, fashion sense, etc. I know this guy who is a master at attracting women (not in the PUA community). Sometimes he will look a woman up and down, but really quickly, smiling and nodding his approval - not in a creepy fashion - this actually matches how fast women will assess a man's looks, they do not stare and stare! A woman might even think you're a sharp cookie because you can size up a woman as fast as a woman would size up a man. That is the kind of compliment you can give a woman re: her looks (if you know how) NOT with words. When women hear verbal compliments on looks they assume you are a sex fiend wanting to get it on with any woman you meet. "Happy Valentine's Day" pretty much works.
So is it ok to wish a female friend happy valentines or Halloween and how do you do it (by text)?
Sure it's ok, and do it face to face. Anything else (unless you guys are just too far apart or only see each other occasionally) is a cop-out.
Yeah it's long distance friendship, different cities lol. So how to do it by text that is flirty, but not too forward so as to be bad and how to get her trying to qualify/prove herself to you? As in she is excited and wants to look good?
If you really know her, you will know what is too much over-the-top. Best.
Ok but is there a way for her to want to prove herself to you and look good?
That depends on personality: those with low self-opinion or narcissistic will seek overt approval. A lot of women don't need that, and will think you kind of pushing her to go that route to confess to it or elicit rating her looks will object. I know this is not the answer you wanted to hear, but again, men and women are very different in this area. Best, gotta go now.
Yeah I get what you mean. Narcissists are not cool. But as for great women, would there be a situation texting where they would want to qualify themselves/prove themselves to you? How?
LOL due I am not Dear Abby or Ann Landers! You have to figure some of this out yourself sometime.
TakeOwner, interesting take. It seems like many guys have this type of mind. I wonder, what makes you inclined to befriend a girl and then unbefriend or be rude to when tey dont sleep with you. What kind of guy would you categorize yourself as? And what men genrally have this as a mantra or personality?
I want more details than just 'most' men because, many seem not to have this ideal. What makes you think this way?
I agree some people are like that. Personally I wouldn't be rude like that. The take was more about the fact that a guy would happily sleep with a female close friend if he was single and she was single and she initiated it.
Oh I think I see. I think some of us automaticaly think you were only interested in sex and nothing else about the girls company. I'm in a situation to where now my male friend kept pushing over friendship boundaries with me and I didn't understand why he would want to go over that line with me. He followed me around at a party and kept pullin gme to ance with him... when we finally got to his dorm, I made out with him... and he kept trying to take it further (a bj) and I said no and he said he didn't know what we would sit there and do then and I could go... so I just walked out. I mean, he didn't hang out with me much after, and just offered a time when he would be back home one night when i asked him to hang out somewhere. I told him I wasn't going back to his dorm and he said to just let him know when I was around... I was really disapointed and how things turned out. So I asked him to just leave me alone, and not to talk to me anymore. But he seemed upset... I guess I just dont get it
I feel like this question sort of relates to that situation. He also offered to help mw with school and pick classes because he wanted me to do well. And I just told him I was fine and thanks. Its been over a year now and he seems sort of tense around me or upset at me sometimes. Its very confusing, because I felt like he pushed over the friendship boundarie for nothing. I'm not sure if I understood his perspective, or if Im right to not want to talk to him. But he seems like he still wants to talk to me. I dont really understand guys I guess. Now a girl he's been intimate with too, who I've not met, is mean to me out of no where too. And I dont know what or why he would tell her anything about me. Its frustrating
Ok, what if you had a threesome fantasy about a female friend? Would she be flattered that you consider them sexually desirable and want them there too? And what if you did occasionally think about a really good friend in a fantasy (solo)?
Nice pic! I'm sure every guy that girl has ever know who wasn't a blood relative would've been happy to sleep with her!
I know, she's so FIT!!!
God damn she's fine right?
Yeah he is! Any idea who that is?
Olympia Valance I think
Shame she hasn't gotten naked yet! :P
Think she's a model tho. Underwear.
Yeah. There's supposedly a pic of her in see through, but it's not really very see through.
She is very hot. Looks good in her underwear shoot!
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Also Olympia did a swimwear shoot I think, she's so FIT!
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thank you for being honest lol
finally !
i alway say that boys and girls can't be "just friends" nor should they
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I actually once turned down sex or at least sexual advances. She was one of my bestfriends at the time. Looking back on it we did flirt a lot but i never thought of her that way. After that things were quite frosty between us and a lot of my friends suspected me as gay.
How did she make advances?
Physical ones
How so?
Tried (succeeded a little bit) to make out with me. Groped me and after that i backed off. It was at a party. I was a littledrunk but not enough to not know what i wanted
If she's hot AND nice, wouldn't you go for it? So is she an actual friend, as in a nice person?
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My guy friend actually got married he is divorced now but I have no sexual attraction towards him whatsoever
He actually is in really good shape and he is a gentleman and he's in the marines and we still hang out but I don't want him in a relationship. He's divorced now
I did not mean to repeat that
No worries. Makes sense.
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That's all we are to them anyway
Waaaa waaa another one of those women... pathetic... smh :S
How do you mean?
That's why I never become friends with guys that I don't find attractive. To some extent, what you have been saying is true, since all the guys I've had the pleasure of being friend with had malicious intents. Most of my friends are women, and the guys I am friends with already have girlfriends.
I upvoted this because I feel like that too. In my opinion, now that Im older Im starting to have plan to work and find jobs and build a career right. Thats hell for a woman. Hell. I have a situation where a guy was my friend and stopped being my friend when i didn't give him a bj or try to hang out. He didn't try to build a relationship so I just stop talking to him. he's butt hurt now and a girl who actually likes him is angry at me. She knows a lot of people in my major I just transferred to. So, now I hae this girl I've never met passively aggressive ot me, and rude when i met her. Who is cool with the department chair who has been known to get people jobs at Apple. I dont get into relationships or screw at this point because I have PTSD and I pay for college myself. I had to quite a office job this summer where i got offered assistment manager, but because the boss was attracted to me to the point where my not coing back on to him caused him to angrily grab my wrist.
Its like, men get upset at you because you dont want to sleep with them even though it can be not because you hate them or whatever theyre insecure about. Maybe you're a fucking human being with problems and trauma and can't juggle his half caring about you and main interest in your groin. Maybe you struggle or something.
@juststrollin Yeah I guess. Not all guys will be dicks though like that.
You're not going to stop being friends with someone if they're nice. This applies to people who find their female friends attractive. It's not about bang em and forget them. This is about would be intimate if she offered. And being closer friends cos of it.
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Naturally, that goes without saying.
Do girls do this?
To some extent girls does it too, however girls are more picky and usually have a slightly clearer distinction between romantic potential and platonic friendships.
Do some lead guys on though or enjoy it? It seems like some are being flirty back in a not so friendly way right? Do girls want to keep guys around? And does it mean anything if either party fantasizes about the other to the person doing the fantasizing and to the object of the fantasy?
Some girls do lead guys on and enjoy it. Some for attention, some because they enjoy it. Do girls want to keep guys around, yes the right guys those they like, not the rest. There some differences between boys and girls, but mostly we are all just humans.
But are they leading on to keep them for their own ego? Isn't that wrong if they had a boyfriend already? As for if they were single, do they also pick us based on "would bang" thinking?
Some girls are leading on, for their own ego, sure it is wrong but than won't change anything, besides what some does, only reflects on them not women in general.
Yeah point. But why would they lead on?
It could be a combination of misplaced kindness, fear of confrontation, vanity or neediness.
Yeah vanity. Don't like attention seekers, they don't stay in my friendship group.
That's just poor right?
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