When a guy cares about the women’s orgasm more than his what does that mean?

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  • Interesting that not one guy who responded laid claim to being "that guy". Well, here I am.

    I wasn't always this way. I was the same as every other guy when I was younger, in it to win it. I assumed my partner was getting off because I was.

    Then over a long period of time, I learned by happy accident that I enjoyed being submissive. My first was a woman who was just intense.. She took control really early in the relationship and taught me what pleasure is all about. Not just hers, but both of ours. She used domination and lessons and made me think, hard (no pun intended!).

    In any case, I learned how to really lick a woman (and Sam Kinison was totally WRONG!), how to foreplay, how to love every inch of her, how to get her motor running and keep it in high gear, and how my pleasure is enhanced by hers.

    Sure a quickie is nice once in a while, but a 2-hour sensual session with all the stops is bliss. I don't even need to orgasm from sex anymore - I can always spank it anytime, so why race to the finish line and ruin my own desire?

    Since then, I've been trained by some of the best, and I've loved every minute of it.

    So what does it mean? It means that I care more about your pleasure than my own. It also means I will probably care more about your happiness than my own.

    If you still want to date a meathead, then by all means, go for it, just don't come back to me looking for an emotional tampon after the next jerk a-hole shits all over you.

  • It means that his satisfaction is to see you satisfy, he is not selfish, he knows the game when it comes to sex and is mature on that topic. Now your using the word ( cares ) and is important know that, because it can be another thing too. He may not really care about her orgasm or her at all. All he want is to proof that he is a good fucker, the big man and can make cum multiple times any woman. That translate to selfish, dominance and power control, that's not good at all if that's his drive. in other words he dont care about her. So is good to know if he is really caring for you or you are just another badge on his chest that he can brag about it with his friend later if the relationship is over.

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  • @iloveitmami
    It means he’s not a selfish lover. Means he’s willing to take the time to make sure you’re satisfied and not rush the issue. Your needs and pleasure are at the top of his list. There are women that appreciate a man that takes his time and makes sure she is pleased while not just trying to focus on getting his.
    Don’t worry it’s a good thing.

  • You should marry him...

    But you won't because women never do because he's a nice guy that cares and isn't the selfish domineering bad boy that they really want to fuck.

    So, despite having her orgasm, she dumps him and cruises for bad boy meat.

    It isn't until she's had 2 divorces and is in late 30s that she realizes that she blew it, so that guy she dumped... he doesn't get married until his late 30s too to one of these women who finally get it after 20 years.

  • He is a geat lover?

  • It means he cares about the woman's orgasm more than his own.

  • He either has a fetish, or he really cares about you.
    If only one person could have an orgasm, you or a guy you don't care about, which would you choose? You.

  • He want to satifact her girlfriend/wife.

  • that its his way of pleasure maybe

  • That he wants the possibility of having sex with her more than one time.

  • it means he's a pleaser.

  • Means he isn't selfish and he wants you to enjoy the moment as well.

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