When a guy confides about his size?

My boyfriend told me he has been insecure about his penis size. Tbh, I never thought he was too small and has always been happy with his performance.
He told me this after we have been together for over six months and it was a shock to me he feels this way.
I assured him that he's perfect in every way and that the size of his penis doesn't matter. I don't ever think bigger is better.
After he told me I started wondering why he did.
Why do you guys think he told me? Other than being sure that I'm satisfied what would be his reasons?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • He told you, because he has an insecurity about his penis size. This is common among guys, but usually the insecurity is of a minor nature. This has probably bothered him long before meeting you. He told you about this, because he feels close to you, and trusts you. Confiding about concerns about his penis size, is something most guys will not talk about, so it demonstrates that you are very trusted by him.

  • If you've never said in the past, we'll wonder what you think (just like you and your body with him). But, it could also be a case of he's getting comfortable enough with you to even share his insecurities, and that may have been all it was. You've told him how you feel, and maybe that was all he needed to hear. Just confirmation. You know how you like to hear it? So do we.

Most Helpful Girls

  • He probably just wants to make sure you are happy. My boyfriend is also very insecure about his size, and I make sure to always tell him how much I love him and how happy he makes me. I also tell him that I accept him completely, and that his entire body is beautiful to me. He says he feels much more confident since we’ve been together.

  • Guys tend to be very sensitive about thier size. My advice would find ways to build his confidence about it

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  • He told you because he wants to know that his penis is enough to please you. His worst fear is that his member is not enough to please you.

    • And if isn’t then what is he afraid of? Me leaving him? Cheating on him? What’s his fear?

    • Yes. He's probably afraid that if he can't sexually perform that you'll look elsewhere. It's a deep set fear for pretty much every guy.

  • A common insecurity among guys, there is a lot of questions in GAG about that.

  • I think he just wants a reassurance from you that you are happy with his member. Nothing else.

  • Ya you just have to put confidence in him because most guys think they can be bigger

  • It's his deep, dark secret that he's sharing with you. You've been supportive and that's good. But it's something he needs to work on for himself.
    You can see from the number of size questions on this site, it's very common.

  • He trusts you with one of his biggest insecurities.

  • Probably what you suspect, he wanted to hear your opinion.

    It's probably porn that has made him think he was lacking. Porn loves to make things easy to see, and a guy that has a large unit , well, it sure can be seen, ha!

  • It's cuz of your huge dildo collection that you think he doesn't know about.

  • He must have read some G@G posts about size differentials.

  • Ask him lol

  • I feel self insecure with my dick size 6 and a half .

  • He told you because obviously he trust you with such sensitive subject, and he may be insecure about it because of a previous experience or affected by social media and porn.

  • He was checking in you and with what you really thought of his junk?

  • Think so too, and by the way u should consider that as a clue that he trusts you a lot