When a guy cums quick , should I think it’s a compliment or should I think he sucks at sex?

[Anonymous]

[notwoke]

you going to ruin your own good time by overthinking this. If he cums quick it just means you can probably do it again in 5 minutes so just go with it. When i was young I would be bummed out of my wife had sex with me and she did not orgasm, or I wasn't super hard she would be bummed. We're over that now. Most likely it means one of us has an outside source of stress affecting us. Just have a good feeling and forget it. If he cums too quick do it again or have him eat you out. All that worrying doesn't provide any value. Now if it is every time that is a different story but still do not assume it is about how turned on he is or if he is "bad at sex". It is much more likely a mental block or a physical problem that can be corrected or will more likely "just go away" with a small amount of patience

[FunkyMonkee]

It COULD be a compliment! You're so good/hot that you made him cum really fast. In order for it to be about him sucking at sex, it'd be more about if he DIDN'T make YOU cum. Okay, he blew his load after just 30 seconds but, did he have the courtesy to make YOU cum, afterwards? I ALWAYS made sure MY girl came!! She was ALWAYS telling me about how her pussy had a HUGE smile when I was done with her!

[Mary087]

It's not always the case he's bad. Maybe you were super tight and warm and the sensation just couldn't make him resist you much longer. That's what happened with me and this last guy i had sex with. He told me i was super tight and he cum right away but he still proceeded to fuck me after that break and it happened again but not for awhile.

[Screenwriter]

It's called premature ejaculation. It's no compliment to him or you because he has no clue how to control his orgasm. It is the bane of people inexperienced with sexual relations.

Any man worth his salt wants to extend sex with a partner for his and the partner's pleasure. This, however, takes practice.

[AwesomeCookie]

Depends on his age. If he's younger just go for round 2.
From what I understand as men get older it takes longer but some men just come quickly no matter what.

[chrissykerdock]

he may be really really atrracted to you he couldn't help himself

[WhatTheHeckkkk]

Maybe both or either of the two.
Sometimes men can get a little over excited about sex and finish quickly (compliment, sometimes). And sometimes men just can’t last long… It just depends.

[DaveJord]

Sucks at sex, I mean its a complaint I guess because you don't disgust him, but yeah that's pretty shitty of him.

[Lliam]

Both. You obviously turn him on, so that's good. But might be either an over excited nube or a premature ejaculator. If he's a nube, he'll probably get better with experience. But the alternative is, he sucks at sex. Does he even know about foreplay?

[RobT312]

Haha. Think it’s both.
i kinda had this problem at first. I was super hyper sexually and would cum to quickly because having sex really excited me. I learned to control and last longer and sex is 10x better

[desidoll]

It can be one of the reason, or both. I usually can tell if he finishes fast because of me or he is just sucks.

[spartan55]

You should think neither actually.

[summiter]

It may depend on how long it has been since he last had sex or masturbated. Younger teen guys tend to shoot off more quickly also. What have you experienced?

[SkipPerk]

You need to help him. Is he young? We were all like this in our teens. One good way is to suck him off, the leg him warm you up until he is ready again. Then you go at it. I used to do this in high school to please my girlfriend.

[connemara_crocodile]

Both. But not the end of the world, he can learn to control it. If he doesn't, then on top of that he's selfish

[andreastan]

Compliment. If he doesn't do something to finish you off, he is bad at sex

[Fireguy17]

He probably is all that great.
No stamina.

[Gwenhwyfar]

Sucks at sex

[brianthenewguy]

It means your good at sex girl way to go

[bowenw]

Probably a compliment, or it's been a while since his last orgasm. See what happens next time.

[Cuminginside]

Sometimes it feels that good yo!

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

It’s a compliment babe

[elizamichale1]

It could be either of those honey

[JustiReno]

So as a pole-fessional what makes a guy good for you? I think you’d be considered an expert on this subject matter. Also, do you guys do the mouth wash toast in the UK? Crack the door and leave big boots 😳

[DrHonesty]

Selfish